Wednesday, February 07, 2024

IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THE STORY ✍️

Watched a movie on this day, two years ago, that talked about how 'there is a story behind everything'; and how 'the stories are always the best part'. It made me think about how much I've always loved stories; and I don't just mean, the ones in story books, movies and songs.😊

Of course, when I read a book, I get so lost in the lives of the characters, that I always feel like I'm part of the story too...When I watch a film, I laugh and cry with the characters, as if their story is my own...And so many, many times, when the book or the film is over, I end up wishing it didn't end there, and that I could know what really happens next, in the lives of the characters...So often, when I listen to the words of a song, I wonder what the song-writer must have been thinking at the time, to create beautiful compositions like that. 🎶

But what I love even more than all those stories, that are born out of someone's imagination, or from a person's experiences, mixed with some creativity; are the real stories I see and hear about everyday. Stories that come to life, when a friend shares an old post, or photographs from the past, stories about people who matter, to friends and loved ones, stories as they happen, that people choose to share every other day; and even the ones that we just discover along the way, through casual conversations.

I think each of those, gives us glimpses into another person's life and thoughts; and allows us to discover just a little bit more about the people in our lives. For those few moments, we become part of someone else's story too; and we share their journey as well...and that is actually such a beautiful thing; because somehow 'stories just connect us' to people. ✨️

Not every story has happy endings; but then, what's always more important than the ending, is the STORY. ✍️


Loved the words of this song from the credits of the film too. Posting it here, just to save the song for myself; but I'm sure others will like it too.😊 

SECOND CHANCES 🎶
- Jana Kramer 


(This was a post I shared on FB, two years ago on 7th February '2022. I like when FB memories reminds me about things I had written and completely forgotten about. I don't even remember what the movie was about now; but if it prompted me to write this post, it must've been really nice.😊

I just found these pics / quotes online and shared them, since they matched my post.)

RESTLESS RUMBLING ✍️

 

In an instant

Your world can spin upside down;

In a moment

A smile could turn into a frown.


In a blink

Life as you know it, can change;

In a flash

A cherished someone, out of range.


And yet,


In an instant

We let ourselves get snared;

In a moment

Entrapped hearts, so blindly cared.


In a blink

It could vanish, what held us so attached;

In a flash

A reminder, to 'Always Stay Detached'.✍️


(On this day last year, 7th February '2023, an earthquake in another part of the globe, left the world quite shaken and stirred. A couple of friends happened to be in that country when the earthquake happened, which was quite scary. Thankfully, they were safe. These verses were a reflection, that I put down on that day.

Natural Calamities are often 'Reminders in Disguise', that nothing we own or possess, and no one that we hold dear, really remains a part of our lives forever. 

As we are only momentarily passing through, on this journey called 'Life'; everything and everyone, is just a part of our 'Reality', for but a 'Fleeting Moment in Time'.)

Sunday, February 04, 2024

LEARNING NEVER STOPS ✍️

 

One of the most fascinating things about our human mind, is that it is almost like a sponge. It keeps absorbing knowledge and information from the world around us, that we collect with the help of all our wonderful senses, and then it just stores it in our brain forever and ever. We don't even realise how much limitless material, is constantly stored in that amazing memory-bank, every single minute, day after day and year after year.

What is equally fascinating, is the multiple ways in which we keep learning, right through our lives, however long or short it may be. Of course, I learned a lot through the 'Formal Education System', right from the Nursery to Post-Grad, and then B.Ed. too. So, for me that was a whole 22 years of studying 'Subjects and Prescribed Curriculum'. That's one way to learn, I guess. At least, that is the mandatory way for everyone, which cannot really be avoided. But that's not the only way, and learning most definitely doesn't stop, once we're out of School, College or University. 

Since I chose to become a Teacher, I found myself studying, every single day for the next 18 years, after I had finished my 22 years of Formal Education, because you can't just reproduce things that are written in text-books, to kids these days. They are exposed to so much information all around them, that they often had more to share and contribute to a lesson, than a teacher could ever tell them. So, we had to constantly be one step ahead of them, to challenge their extremely eager, enthusiastic and very curious minds. In order to do that, I found myself reading and researching more and more every day, right through my journey as a Teacher. In fact, even if I was teaching the same topic or chapter, for two consecutive years, I always added, just a little bit more to what I'd taught the children, in the previous year. Thankfully, the boundless information that is now available at our fingertips, is an awesome tool in our hands. 

But that was one of the reasons why, I forever struggled to finish my portion, within the stipulated number of classes, and I was constantly running out of time. Invariably, I would end up borrowing extra periods from my colleagues at work, and most of my co-workers would never be able to understand, why I was always lagging behind. Those in authority never understood it too, but the children loved it. I think, that's what made it so worthwhile to me. I never really cared that I earned a reputation for finishing late or last, because I knew that the kids would never forget, what they've learned in my classroom, due to that little 'extra' which I shared with them, in very unique and creative ways too. 

Having varied interests in music, writing, media, journalism, films, literature, theatre, popular culture, travelling, nature and environment and so much more, ensured that I chose interesting ways in which to share that knowledge with them too. From newspaper clips to music videos, from movies to cartoon strips, from interviews to novels, from quizzes to games, from travelogues to even TV ads, just about anything and everything found a way into my lessons; and I will always remember the joy it brought to the children, every single time. They loved that 'out of the box' way, of making sense of the sometimes boring words that were written in their text books; and seeing that they did, made me happy. 😊

After spending close to 4 decades of my life in classrooms, first as a student and later, as a teacher; one would imagine, that I've learned more than enough for one lifetime...But in reality, the 'Learning Never Stops'. Even though it's not for academic purposes anymore, I still find myself learning something new every single day, through books and the cartloads of information available on the internet, through the travel experiences of friends, through songs I listen to and movies I watch, through interesting things that people share in online content, about things as varied as health and lifestyle habits, to food, nutrition and diet, to natural alternatives to medicine, to places and cultures in different parts of the world, to the stories behind a song and the lives of the people who made them, and so much more.

The difference now, is that the topics I am interested in learning about, are not merely subject and curriculum related information.  So, it's more broad-based learning, about just about anything and everything, that may catch my attention or interest me. 

Among the other positives of having more time to explore and discover things I enjoy, are not having to bother about waking up before the sun every morning, or having to meet irrational and back-breaking deadlines, not being stressed out 24/7, or catching colds and having headaches from the constant lack of sleep, not having a strained voice and falling sick all year round because of work. The best of all though, is having all the time in the world, to use just as I please. That can really be so conducive to learning a lot more, than I ever could before.

Doing absolutely nothing for a while, can often be more useful and beneficial, than constantly doing something and being busy, all the time. If only more people realised the value in it, I think the world would be a more relaxed, stress-free and consequently, healthier and happier place. ✨️✍️


Saturday, February 03, 2024

LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU ✍️

 

When you make a choice

You create a space,

That someone new will fill;

And even if you aren't around,

The wheels keep turning still.


When you walk away

You leave behind,

A legacy of things you've done;

A little alike, a little differently,

The race continues to be run.


When you change your path

You force people to learn,

To find new ways, to do the old;

Stumbling, falling, they rise again,

Till their effort, shines like gold.


When you take a step 

You don't always know,

What might happen next;

'No one is Indispensible', she often said,

A Mother's words, now in context.


When you choose to Refresh

You think you've lost,

A large part of who you are;

But her voice, a constant reminder,

'My Daughter, To Me, You're A Star'.✨️


(Last year on this day, 3rd February '23, I wrote these verses as a 'Reflection', on something that I was thinking about then.

I found a 6 year old uplifting FB comment, from my mum, on an Annual Day post from 2017. Just when I was feeling a little overwhelmed, by pics and videos, that my teacher friends were sharing, about the 2023 event at DB, which had just happened a couple of days before that ('Without Me', for the first time in 19 years)...Perfect Timing!😊

The Annual Days at DB, were one of the many things that had always been very close to my heart, (among countless other things), because I used to be a big part of the entire planning and executing process, for close to two decades. So, this time of the year, makes me feel a range of different feelings and emotions, even after being away from the 'action', for almost two years now.

Mothers always know exactly what to say and when you need to hear it, even when they're not even here anymore.✨️❤️ (With a little help from FB memories, of course.)


Wednesday, January 31, 2024

MY GOLD MEDALS ✨️✍️


Sportsmen who make the nation proud,

Businessmen who stand out in a crowd.


Scientists doing research in a foreign land,

Surgeons saving lives with their healing hand.


Pilots that fly people to places of their dreams,

Musicians that make the world, better than it seems.


Artists and Educators, Engineers and Doctors as well,

Lawyers and Journalists, Actors and Chefs so swell.


The list of professions, where there is now a part of me,

Just boundless; and every day new horizons they see.


They make me so proud, as they leave a mark,

For they all once sat in my classroom...Today, each 'A Bright Spark'.✨️


31st of January is the day on which Don Bosco is remembered fondly. Since I spent two decades as a part of the DB Family, 'Living His Dream' and being a 'Friend of the Young', just as he was; I couldn't help writing something about the true joy and satisfaction, that my journey as a 'Teacher' brought me. 

Each time I hear of the achievements and academic and professional milestones of my now grown-up boys, in so many varied fields, I feel so proud. The goals and the success that they achieve, are truly 'My Gold Medals'.😊✍️


'LIVE THE DREAM' - This has always been one of my favourite songs written about Don Bosco.


The Mumbai Salesians posted another Cover Version of that same song by Fr.Sunil Pinto earlier today. Am sharing that too.



...and this song, 'DON BOSCO IN OUR HEARTS' is the other song about Don Bosco, that I really love. It has a beautiful melody and lovely lyrics too. These two songs will always stay with me, even though I'm not physically on a DB campus every day. 

I guess like the words of this song,

'Don Bosco in our hearts, we'll always sing,

The melody you taught our hearts to sing.'✨️🎶❤️



Tuesday, January 30, 2024

LOVE LIVES ON ✨️❤️

 


LIVE ON ✨️

- Amy Sky, Beth Nielsen Chapman, and Olivia Newton-John

I'm waking up this morning
Grateful for the gift of one more day
The light of hope is dawning
It fills my heart and lifts my fears away
Sometimes there is a miracle just beyond the pain
When you can see the rainbow in the rain

Live on
Live on
Brighter skies will come again
Cry the tears you cry and then
Live on
Live on
Love is all we leave when we are gone
Live on

We've shared so much together
Think of all the mountains we have climbed
Sorrow, joy and laughter
Woven through the tapestry of time
Even as we're letting go, we will not lose faith
All the precious memories we made

Live on
Live on
In the hearts of those we touch
All the dreams inside of us
Live on
Live on
Love is all we leave when we are gone
Live on

You've got to live on
Live on
Live on
More than just survive my friend
We learn how to thrive and then
Live on
Live on
Shining like the words inside this song
Live on
Live on
Love is all we leave when we are gone
Live on

In every heart of those we touch (live on)
In every dream that means so much (live on)
Yes, I believe that all of us
Live on.❤️



Monday, January 29, 2024

THAT'S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR ✨️❤️

Saw this on a friend's page and liked it. So shared it on FB in 2021. Was reminded of this today. So, thought I would post it here. 

For the special 'Piglets' in my life,😊 who've just 'Always Been There' for me, on happy days and especially on 'difficult days'. Glad you're a part of my world.🤗❤️



Sunday, January 28, 2024

WHAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF ✨️✍️


A completely imaginary, make-believe world,

An unexpected creation, when a magic-wand is twirled.


A temporary escape, from the routine, the normalcy,

An uncertain, fleeting step, into a vision, a fantasy.


A place or a time, when serendipity casually occurs,

A happy coincidence, when a chance encounter recurs.


A much-needed escape, from the everyday mundane,

A winding detour, which seems to diminish the pain.


An opportunity to explore, worlds before unknown,

A trip to a land, where no wings have ever flown.


A wondrous surprise, for a constantly lingering mind,

An illusion, even if only for a moment, a real joy to find.✍️


(Originally posted on FB, a year ago, on 28th January '2023.)



I WILL SURVIVE ✍️


You haven't lived my very unique life,

Full of ups and downs, joy and strife,

So don't tell me, how I should live;

You haven't walked this bumpy road,

Or carried that same heavy load,

So just avoid, the free advice you give.


You haven't shed endless sorrowful tears,

Panicked all night, with never-ending fears,

So don't put, your own spin on my day;

You haven't felt the darts that were aimed,

When your hard work, someone else claimed,

So it's best, that not a word you say.


You haven't lived, hoping against hope,

Sleepless, helpless, barely managing to cope,

So don't tell me, how to do each thing;

You haven't often cried yourself to sleep,

With your world crumbling, tumbling in a heap,

So I'd rather, no words of wisdom you bring.


To tell people, how and what they need to do,

To many, comes just as easily as wearing a shoe,

And eager helpers, always want you to know;

That their way, is always right and best,

That they have solutions to every test,

Follow them, and for certain you will grow.


But I know for certain, I'll never learn,

Till everything, does topsy-turvy turn,

Each moment, an experience only mine;

I may tumble and fall along the way,

But I'll pick up the pieces, every single day,

And hopefully at the end, I'll still be fine. ✍️




Friday, January 26, 2024

'TODAY' IS ALL I HAVE ✍️

 I cry, I sigh

And I often wonder Why,

That restless Yesterday, I remember,

A Life-Time of saying Goodbye.😢


I think, I blink

And I sometimes wonder Where,

That uncertain Tomorrow may lead,

A Journey, with many an unforseen care.🤔


But until then...


I Live, I Give

And I ask no What, no When, no How,

This Today I face, One Moment at a Time,

With A Song to Cheer Each Now.🎶


(Like so many countless, random thoughts that I've put into words, over the last 4 or 5 years, I wrote and posted this one on FB two years ago, on the 26th of Jan '22; and then I forgot all about it. 

Thanks to FB reminders, I can read these again, and now, save them here too.)

Tuesday, January 23, 2024

MORNING HAS BROKEN 🌤✍️

 

As the long, teary night, 

Turns into a miraculous new day,


As the gloomy darkness fades, 

Slowly giving way to a bright light,


As those wondrous rays, 

Out of nowhere, begin to appear;


Some much needed reminders, 

On the wings of a fresh morn, they bring.


To always keep thinking 

Of the kindest words to say,


To constantly ensure

Those happy thoughts are in sight,


To listen to the birds sing 

They never let their cheerful song disappear.✨️


(Posted on FB, last year on the 23rd of Jan '23.)

MORNING HAS BROKEN 🎶

A beautiful Piano Instrumental version of this song by Ben Fernandez, from Auckland, NZ. 🎶




THERE YOU'LL BE ✨️🎶

 


THERE YOU'LL BE 🎶 (Song Lyrics)

- Faith Hill

When I think back on these times

And the dreams we left behind

I'll be glad 'cause I was blessed to get to have you in my life.

When I look back on these days

I look and see your face

You were right there for me.


In my dreams, I'll always see you soar above the sky,

In my heart, there'll always be a place for you for all my life,

I'll keep a part of you with me

And everywhere I am, there you'll be

And everywhere I am, there you'll be.


Well, you showed me how it feels

To feel the sky within my reach

And I always will remember all the strength you gave to me.

Your love made me make it through

Oh, I owe so much to you

You were right there for me.


In my dreams, I'll always see you soar above the sky,

In my heart, there'll always be a place for you for all my life,

I'll keep a part of you with me

And everywhere I am, there you'll be.


'Cause I always saw in you my Light, my Strength,

And I wanna Thank You now for all the ways

You were right there for me

You were right there for me

For Always.


In my dreams, I'll always see you soar above the sky,

In my heart, there'll always be a place for you for all my life,

I'll keep a part of you with me

And everywhere I am, there you'll be

And everywhere I am, there you'll be

There you'll be. ✨️




(I like the 'Music and Lyrics' of this song from the movie 'Pearl Harbour', and found this version that someone posted on YT. It's one in which Faith Hill is singing the song, together with an entire orchestra. So, I thought I would share this one.) 🎶✍️


Monday, January 22, 2024

LESSONS FROM A SMALL SQUARE BOX ✍️😢



In one small square box is now all that remains,

After the creepy crawly tiny creatures have had a royal feast.

Two years down the road, to see your 'Best Friend' reduced to just skull and bones,

Just mud and dust and dirt, mortal remains torn down to the very least.


Not the prettiest sight to watch them put the third set in,

Back into that same little box, where all that's left of a 'Family' will now stay.

While you all enjoy eternity in heaven, this day was a lesson for me,

To be humble and grounded forever, for that's exactly what I will be too, one day.



(I wrote the above verses on FB, on the 22nd of January' 2021, after I had an experience, that I will never forget.)


I've never really been one to visit graves often, because I know there's nothing there, but mortal remains...but this, just happened to be the day on which, whatever little was still left of my mum (over two years after she had passed away), was transferred from her grave, and for that, they opened up the family niche. That gave me a glimpse of the 2 previous bundles of remains, of my dad and brother as well...And even though I know, it's not really them but just bones, it was still extremely hard, to see that and to get through the day. The 'not so pleasant memory' of what I saw the undertakers digging out of her grave that day, is something that will stay with me forever.😢

Today coincidentally, (exactly three years later, on that very same day), I was back in that same spot, standing in front of that small square box. This time though, it was for a very untimely funeral of an old friend, who passed away completely unexpectedly, a couple of days ago. Surrounded by lots and lots of very shocked and equally bewildered friends at his funeral, and looking at my friend (his wife) and their little 11 year old daughter, I couldn't help thinking about how history was kind of repeating itself, in the life of another family and another little girl, who was learning the meaning of 'Death' at almost the same age as me.😔


Thursday, January 18, 2024

A DRAMATIC PAUSE ✍️

This post almost turned into a really long 'Short Story';😄 but this is an incident that happened years ago in DB, and one, that I think of, very often. 

A student of mine, who was once playing the main role in an Annual Day Production in school, suddenly forgot his lines on stage, in the middle of the dress rehearsal; and there were a few moments of a very awkward silence, during which all the other actors on stage, just stopped and stared at him.

...and after a little while, this boy, who was actually a 'fabulous actor', just very casually continued his lines, as if nothing had happened.😆

At the end of the show, when I asked him what had happened, he said, "Miss, it was nothing. I was just taking a 'DRAMATIC PAUSE."😂 

I laughed so much at his answer, that day; and have used it as an example, when training the children to act, for years after that; whenever I had to tell students, not to worry or panic, if they ever forgot their dialogues on stage.

I know my teacher friends back in DB, are busy getting set for the Annual Day at the moment. In most Salesian schools, the 'Annual Thanksgiving Days' happen somewhere around the Feast of St.John Bosco. I guess, that's why this memory popped up, in my mind today.😊

This is the first year, after almost two decades, when I'm not part of the preparations...and so every few days, I find myself wondering about, what must be going on in school, during this time.🤔

Really can't help missing it all. Being part of the Planning, Co-ordinating and Writing process year after year; and together with the other teachers in school, training the Comperes, the Actors, the Singers, the Choir, finding just the right Music and Songs, working with the teams helping with Stage set-ups, Props, Sound, Lights, LED graphics for the Backdrops, Choreography...and the countless little things, that went into staging huge School Productions, was always so much fun. 

Sounds really exhausting, when I think about it now; and it definitely was. I used to need a few weeks of rest and lots of sleep, to recover after it all, every year. But, it also gave me the opportunity to use and develop, so many of my 'Creative Talents' and the large variety of things I learnt in the process, from the different people we worked with every year, was so wonderful too.😊

It used to be a very hectic two or three months, from around November to January; because the other events, academics, exams, (and worst of all) paper-corrections,🙈 in school, kept happening simultaneously too. The end result though, was always so satisfying, when I would see almost 1000 students and more, standing on the huge stage 'together at the Finale', from the 'Sound Console'. That was where I would always be, from beginning to end; because like most big events, that was kind of the 'Control Centre', from where everything could be co-ordinated.

I loved how ex-students coming back to school for the Annual Days, always came there directly, if they wanted to meet me.They somehow knew, that they would find me there; because that was where they saw me every year, on the Annual Days. It kind of became my 'permanent spot' for years.😊 

It has been more than a decade, since that, 'Oops, what's my next line?' incident, happened on stage;  but it always makes me 'Smile', whenever I think about it. Somehow, I have never forgotten that 'tiny little hiccup of a story'; and especially, that boy's 'Fabulous Answer'.

As a teacher, there were many times, when our students taught us little lessons like that one...I think, what that 13 or 14 year old child taught me, is that there may be many times in life, when (like the forgotten lines of a play) things just happen a little differently, from the way we thought they would...Instead of getting worked up about it though, all we can do, is to just casually and calmly take a 'Dramatic Pause'; and eventually, things will fall into place, exactly when they need to.️ 

Life is 'the Biggest Production' of all, but it's only just 'A Play', to which we haven't seen the script yet; and as a result, we have absolutely no clue how the next scene might unfold...Of course, I guess not knowing how it's going to end, is what makes a story more interesting...and the 'Author of Life', somehow always knows what He's doing, even when we don't. After all, He is the one Co-ordinating this fascinating Production, from His Control Centre, 'Somewhere Out There'.✍️✨️


* (Shared this last year, on the 18th Jan '23. FB memories reminded me of this 'Story-Time' post of mine today; and since I'm trying to revive this dormant blog and collect as many of the random things I've written over the last few years as I can find, in one place, I thought I would post this here as well.)

Wednesday, January 17, 2024

DISNEY MAGIC ✨️🎶

'Love will find a way
Anywhere I go
I'm Home
As long as you're beside me;
Like dark
Turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way'. 🎶

The 'Magic' of a Disney Song. They've always been my favourite. I'm a huge Disney fan, and it's mostly because of the 'Music' in their movies, which is always magically beautiful.✨️

There are so many Disney songs that I love. This is one of them.😊


LOVE WILL FIND A WAY (Lion King 2) 🎶

In a perfect world
One we've never known
We would never need
To face the world alone.

They can have their world
We'll create our own
I may not be brave
Or strong or smart
But somewhere in my secret heart
I know

Love will find a way
Anywhere I go
I'm Home
As long as you're beside me;
Like dark
Turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way.

I was so afraid
Now I realise
Love is never wrong
And so it never dies.

There's a perfect world
Shining in your eyes
And if only they could feel it too
The happiness
I feel with you
They'd know.

Love will find a way
Anywhere we go
We're Home
If we are there together;
Like dark
Turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way.

I know
Love will find a way
Anywhere we go
I'm Home
If we are there together;
Like dark
Turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way.

I know

Love will find a Way ✨️

I know

Love will find a Way ❤️

(Sharing a video of the song, that someone uploaded on YT.)


Monday, January 15, 2024

RE-IMAGINING A SONG ✨️🎶


There are times when the 'cover versions' of songs sound and look more beautiful than the original. I think that's what is so wonderful about music. People can take a great song and re-imagine it, in their own creative way, both musically and also, in the way the video is picturised.😊

I heard this version of the song first, a few months ago; and then went and listened to the original. I just liked this one more; maybe because the amazing backdrop of the sea, and the lovely harmony, just adds so much to the lyrics of the song.🎶✍️ 

The fact that the song is so free-flowing and doesn't have the rhythm, like the original version, also gives it a very dreamy, magical feel.✨️

Sunday, January 14, 2024

DREAM...DREAM...DREAM...🎶✨️

The closest we could ever be

To those Bright, Blue Skies up there,

Is if we accompanied 'A Merry Little Kite'

As it sails on the soothing breeze, 

To who knows where.


The nearest we could wish to get

To that Rainbow that colours the sky,

Is if we journeyed with 'A Forever Restless Plane'

As it goes places through the calming clouds,

Soaring oh so high.


The farthest we could hope to reach

To hug special, loved ones we can't be near,

Is if we cruised along in 'An Over-Imaginative Mind'

As it rides the gentle, relaxing waves, 

Of Happy Dreams so dear.️❤️✍️


(Posted this on FB on this day last year, 14th January '23. I guess the Festival of Sankrant and the kite-flying happening all around, is where this one was born.)


You may say, 'I'm a Dreamer'

But I'm not the only one.🎶




Friday, January 12, 2024

TO A BETTER PLACE I KNOW ✨️✍️



Far, far beyond the stars
Is a much nicer place to be,
Where those we dearly love
Would keep us company.

Up there in those blue skies
Among the clouds so white,
Where the moon in all its glory
Would always be in sight.

Away from life's jagged twists
That just overwhelm the mind,
Where warmth from caring hearts
Would be ever so easy to find.

Basking in those glowing rays,
Beaming down on each new day,
Where time with no beginning 
Would also keep every end at bay.

If only reality wasn't as complex
And it didn't constantly weigh us down,
Where a world full of imaginary dreams
Would chase away every frown.

How wondrous if we could truly find
That one place where we belong,
Where joy and laughter that never ends
Would linger on like a happy song. ✨️✍️

(The starting point of these verses, was an old song by Debbie Reynolds called 'Far Beyond the Stars', from the 1966 film 'The Singing Nun'.)


FAR BEYOND THE STARS 🎶 
- Debbie Reynolds












Tuesday, January 09, 2024

YOU'LL NEVER KNOW ✍️✨️

Till you've walked that lonely road,

Till you've carried that burdensome load,


Till you've climbed that tall, steep hill

Till you've known 'Life never goes according to your will',


Till you've shed a million tears,

Till you've faced many countless fears,


Till you've weathered some turbulent storms,

Till you've changed too much, to care about the norms,


Till you've so often cried yourself to sleep,

Till you've experienced pain, that runs too deep,


Till you've known that 'All' that you own, are merely 'Just Things',

Till you've lost that warmth and genuine concern, that 'Only Real Family' brings,


Till you've tried each day to 'Smile some More',

Till you've questioned so much, you can't keep score,


Till you've made sure you built up so many walls,

Till you've left unanswered, hundreds of calls,


Till you've hidden in a shell, choosing when you want to peep,

Till you've gone ten steps forward, yet back to 'the Comfort of Silence' you creep,


I could go on, cause 'Writing' is the way I choose to Heal, to Grow,

But even if you read every word, 'Till you really know, You'll Never Know'. ✍️


(Posted this on FB exactly a year ago, on the 9th of January '2023. 

Sometimes, people and experiences hurt or upset you so much, that it all just explodes, in outpourings like these verses.

'Thoughts Expressed' don't mean you're Obsessed or Depressed;
But 'Feelings' have to come out 'Somewhere'.✨️
(Better out here than stuck within.)


Monday, January 08, 2024

THAT SPARKLING STAR ✨️✍️



Only One Bright twinkling 'Star'

Lighting up the calm night sky, 

Led the way to 'A Wondrous Superstar',

Who in a humble manger did lie.


The Shepherds gazed and stared;

And the Three Wise Men wondered too,

They all followed this dazzling 'Light',

That brightened the heavenly blue.


Thousands of stars dispelled the dark,

Yet 'Something Important', this one wanted to say,

Somehow it seemed, to call out to them;

And to a 'Special Someone', it pointed the way.


They could have ignored it and passed it off,

As just one of millions, blinking up there,

But they knew there was a 'Story', soon to be told,

That they had to be part of and then share.


Maybe that Star, was always around,

In the company of the silver moonlight;

But probably it knew, this news was too exciting,

So in all its splendour, it sparkled that night.✨️✍️

     (Originally posted on 8th January '2023)



Also sharing a song I found yesterday, which I liked.

Always fun to find different versions of songs...But this re-mixed animated version of 'We Three Kings' made me laugh.😊 So I thought, that friends who haven't seen it, may enjoy it too.✨️

Last Christmas Song for the season. Just not the way, you've heard it before.🎄🎶



(Video shared from a page on YT; and the picture, I just found on the Internet.)

Saturday, January 06, 2024

COBWEBS AND ILLUSIONS ✍️

If I was a Spider, creating webs would be my speciality,
Spinning each intricate and twisted weave;
The poor unsuspecting prey, would be ensnared,
Once caught and trapped, they could never leave.

If I was a Magician, at 'sleight of hand', I'd be an expert,
Appearing and Disappearing, in a moment of the show;
The perplexed and confused onlookers, would wonder,
'How did she do that?', they'd really want to know.

Today, Politicians, Lawyers and maybe, Journalists too,
Just about everyone, like a Spider and a Magician, wants to be;
With people constantly trying to 'Bend the Truth',
Everyday, it's getting more difficult, the 'Facts' to see.

Webs and Illusions, might seem like 'Fun-Time' for the Creators,
Because only they know, what's actually going on;
Sadly, 'Reality' gets completely tangled and caught up,
And in the bargain, 'Trust' is 'Forever Lost and Gone'. ✍️

Thursday, January 04, 2024

MIRROR IMAGE ✍️

 

The Mirrors in our Eyes

Clear Visions to See

Piercing, Discerning, 

Reflections of the Deepest Soul.


The Mirrors in our Minds

On Constant Re-play

Pondering, Wondering,

Reflections of Honest Truth.


The Mirrors in our Hearts

Forever Aimlessly Lost

Yearning, Longing

Reflections of Devoted Love.


The Mirrors in our History

Strolling Down Memory-Lane

Unearthing, Discovering

Reflections of a Forgotten Time.


The Mirrors in our Dreams

A Walk into the Unknown

Waking, Sleeping,

Reflections of Unfulfilled Desire.


The Mirrors in our Lives

Like a Friend, Always There

Accompanying, Guiding,

Reflections of Untampered Reality.


(I only ever had 'ONE REAL MIRROR' in my Life; and I see more and more of 'Her Reflection' staring back at me, every single day, each time I look into one.✨️❤️

I guess, that was the starting point of these reflective verses, that I originally posted on FB on 10th March' 2023.)

REMEMBER ME THIS WAY ✨️❤️


I first heard this song a very long time ago, on my 21st Birthday. Marcelle, one of my closest friends in college, went around the whole of Xavier's, recording Birthday wishes for me from Friends, Professors, and just about everyone I knew, on her 'Walkman', as a 'Special Surprise' for me.😊

Since I had so many friends who love music, a lot of the wishes on that audio cassette, (which was my 'Most Precious Birthday Gift Ever') were in song. This song was sung on that cassette, by my friend Gauri Burde, who was originally from Bangalore, but who was studying with us in Bombay.

That's why, the song has always been 'Extra Special' to me.✨️❤️

THANKFUL ✨️❤️


A sweet song, just to remind us to be 'Thankful' for the little things.😊

Though we need to be 'Grateful' for life's many blessings, every single day; the end of a year always feels like the appropriate time, to think about this, as we look back on the year gone by. It really is a good time to say, 'These are the things, I'm Thankful for.'✨️❤️


(Posted on FB on the 30th of December ' 2023.)

THE JOURNEY ✨️✍️

Discovered this song a few weeks ago, and thought I would post it, in the last week of 2023. A great song to listen to, as we reach the end of another year.

As each year draws to a close, it also heralds the dawn and the beginning of a new one. 

But there's always so much to ponder and reflect on, as we think of 'The Journey' thus far, and look forward to what lies ahead; as we keep moving 'forward, always forward', just One Moment, One Day, One Step at a Time.✨️❤️


(Posted on FB in the last week of 2023.)


LOVE LIVES ON ✨️✍️

Maybe you're there,

Maybe you see;

From somewhere way up in the clouds,

Maybe you're silently watching over me.✨️


Time sure has wings.💞



GUIDING LIGHT ✨️❤️


When I need to get 'Home'

You're my 'Guiding Light'.✨️

- Donna Taggart



LIKE THE STARS IN THE SKY ✍️

Some Love Stories live on and on, ✍️

Like a Special Song, that in our memory replays; 🎶

Like a 'Silver Lining' traced upon the Heart, ❤️

Forever 'Glimmering and Cherished' Always. ✨️


(Originally posted on FB, on 3rd January' 2023.)

RAMBLING RHYMES ✍️

 

As quietly as darkness takes over the light,

As silently as the twinkling stars glitter every night.


As soft as a gentle wind on a hot summer day,

As calm as a cathedral, where restless minds pray.


Like a simple little line, finds its place in a rhyme,

Like an alarm reminds us, that to wake up, It's Time.


Like a few aimless similes, really going nowhere,

Like an eager verse or two, appearing anytime, anywhere.


(Originally posted on FB on 25th March '2023.)

MIXED EMOTIONS ✍️


Happy and Sad, both at once,

Happens sometimes, doesn't it?

And when it does, I wonder 'Why',

That tussle in the heart, won't quit.


Joy and Sorrow, closely intertwined,

Like Shadow and Light, with us they play;

So deeply rooted, I wonder 'How',

They follow us around, and forever stay.


Smiles and Tears, like Sun and Rain,

Almost together, they often appear;

But their origin, I wonder 'Where',

Close bonds make you 'Feel', that's clear.


(Originally posted on FB on this day last year, 4th January '2023.)

Sunday, December 31, 2023

GRATEFUL FOR...✨️❤️


Enlightening Experiences

Life-Lessons

Intriguing Inspirations 

Covert Connections

Joyful Journeys✍️


Dramatic Differences

Polarised Personalities

Entertaining Energies

Circus Clowns

Shared Smiles😊


Realistic Realisations

Alluring Angels

Inexplicable Intricacies

Creative Conversations

Glittering Gleams✨️

(Originally posted on FB, on this day last year, 31st December '22. 

The pics are not my own. Just found them in an online search, and shared them because they matched my post.)

Friday, December 29, 2023

THAT'S LIFE! ✍️

Like the phases of the moon,

Our Life has phases of its own;

Constantly evolving, ever changing,

Each tomorrow, completely unknown.


Like the seasons follow one another,

And we adapt to its every mood swing;

Life's challenges keep us on our toes,

Uncertainty, every new dawn does bring.


Like the clock keeps ticking away,

Turning a busy day, into a silent night;

At every step, more Moments become Memories,

Till it's our turn, to walk towards the Light.✨️


'Aiz Maka, Falea Tuka' - That's what we see, at the entrance of the cemetery, in Aldona, Goa; and maybe in other Churches there too. As a child, I spent most of my summer holidays, on an island called Corjuem.That wasn't our ancestral village in Goa; but my Grandfather just liked the place, and so bought a home there, when both my Grandparents retired from their jobs here in Mumbai, and decided to spend their retired life in Goa.

Since there was no English Mass in their village chapel at the time, we crossed the ferry boat every Sunday morning, to go to the bigger Church, across the river in Aldona, (as the bridge didn't exist then).

One memory of that Church, that I will never forget, is seeing these lines, at the gate of the cemetery. If you don't know Konkani, it translates to, 

'Today, it's me. 

Tomorrow, it will be you.'

I don't remember how old I was, when I first saw that; but those words must've made an impression on my young mind, because I never forgot that image. It's something that has stayed with me for many decades; and each time there is a death in my family, or someone I know, loses a loved one, I'm instantly reminded of those words, all over again.

It might not seem like a very positive thought to carry along in our mind, as we journey through life; but I think, that if we frequently remind ourselves of this line, we will always remember, that none of us are going to live on this planet forever...and when it's our turn to bid this earthly life adieu, we will take nothing that we own or possess, with us.

So consequently, being as 'detached' as we possible can, seems like a good way to go through life...Not the easiest thing for us human beings to do; but I guess, it does change our whole outlook to life, when we're constantly aware of this reality.🌸✍️

*(Just found this picture posted on the Internet by someone, as I only had a picture of the place in my memory, and not an actual one.)

TO MUSICIANS AND SINGERS EVERYWHERE ✨️❤️

For those of us who love Music, December is always a month in which we are literally spoilt for choice, because there are such a lot of music events happening in different places all over, constantly.🎶

In recent years, since I used to listen to so many online music shows, I connected with and got to know, a lot of musicians and singers, not just here in Mumbai, but from Bangalore and Goa as well.😊 These amazing performers and entertainers, must have always had very busy and hectic Decembers; but now, because we get to know about all their events regularly, we actually realise how exhausting this month must be for them.

No doubt, they love what they do and enjoy making the world a happier place, through every song they sing; but I just wanted to write a post like this today, because I have been thinking about this right through this month, each time I saw the never ending posters, posts, stories or live streams, of all the musician friends, that I have made over the last three and a half years.

I know that the month is still not over; but why wait till the end of December to say this. So, 'Thank You' to every single one of you, who has been making people 'Smile and Sing and Dance', all through this festive season.❤️ I have been to only some of these numerous events; but I have followed many of your posts about your shows online...Unlike you, I don't think I would ever have the energy, to be able to do what you do; getting up on a different stage night after night, in various parts of one city, and even in different cities, just singing your hearts out and filling the world with song.😊

All of you, bring so many people together at each of your events, and you make countless people 'Happy' everyday; and that, is such a beautiful thing...This is just my way of saying, 'Thank You for the Music'.✨️

(I would love to tag everybody; but there are so many of you, and I don't want to leave anyone out. So hopefully, this note of 'Gratitude', with a little bit of 'Christmas Magic', reaches all of you.)🎄💕

TURNING BACK THE TIME ✍️

 

Some Silent Pondering,

More Reflective Wondering.


Non-stop Nostalgic Replays,

A truly Winding Mind-Maze.


Every Moment, a Mystery,

A Contemplative walk thru' History.


'Time' - Quickly Racing Along,

Yet, 'Frozen Forever' like a Song.✨️


(Originally posted on FB on this day last year, 29th Dec. 2022)

Tuesday, December 19, 2023

WHEN CHRISTMAS CHANGED FOREVER ✍️

 

I'm not the most Fun person to be around at Christmas time. So, I consciously choose, to stay away from it all. I love the memories; but not the reminders.😢 Not sure everyone will understand the 'difference' between the two; but I guess, those who really know me, will understand why...Maybe someday, I'll go back to thinking of and celebrating Christmas, like the ones I used to know...but not yet.😊

WHEN CHRISTMAS CHANGED FOREVER...✍️

Christmas Tree, Decorations and Lights,
A table laden with Food, What a Feast!
A Crib and a Star, Cakes and Sweets,
Made over a week of late nights, at least.

Carols playing right through December,
Extra-long Choir practices, What Fun!
Hot coffee and songs, after Midnight Mass,
At Christmas Time, ALL of this, we've done.

Then 2009, one Christmas came,
And everything changed, What a Week!
22nd to 28th - Ambulances and Hospitals,
Those sirens, for months later made me freak.

The decade that followed, it kept going on and on,
Almost 9 years of wondering, What More!,
With doctors and nurses for company,
Menus of different hospital cafeterias in store.

And in all that time, Christmas just Changed,
It all began to seem like, What a Waste!
The frills and thrills that the season brings,
On so much frivolousness, seemed to be based.

Life made this choice for me, not ideal but so Real,
And I somehow prefer it quieter now, What Calm!
Only listen to some carols; In Church, sing a few too,
The rest, not so joyful; but the resulting Peace - A Balm.✨️❤️

(Originally posted on FB, last year on this day, 19th Dec. '22)

Saturday, December 16, 2023

FLASHBACKS ✍️


Like sudden flashes of lightning,

They appear and then they're gone;

Just about anything triggers them,

Morning, night, dusk or dawn.


Like a familiar tune, they linger,

From one to another, quick and fast;

The mind, such a rich store-house, 

Memories aplenty, in this ocean vast.


Like a mountain trail, so often trod,

Too familiar to erase or forget;

At this time of the year, more frequent,

Feelings, emotions, a tangled net.


(Originally posted on FB, last year on the 15th of Dec. '22.)

GRIEF = LIFE IN SLOW MOTION ✍️

Grief slows us down completely. It's like Life begins to run in 'Slow Motion', with an 'Auto Rewind' switch attached to it, that takes us into 'Flashback Mode' all the time, every time. The constant mood swings, the moments bordering on very depressing thoughts, the never-ending sense of loss and loneliness, the longing for that elusive 'Listening Ear' and 'Sounding Board', the absence of our loved ones, in the most mundane and routine activities, the timely assistance when the workload burdens us, to the point of countless sleepless nights, the little ideas that spark our creativity, that loving, reassuring hug and presence, the numerous words of encouragement and the only shoulder we could ever cry on...

How I wish people would understand that 'Grief', doesn't just magically disappear in a few months, or a year or two, or maybe even in a lifetime! The Accepting, Digesting, Processing and everything that comes with the Loss of a Loved One, takes 'Time', and that 'Time Frame' varies for each individual.

And no matter how many Happy and Distracting ways and means, we may try to make use of, to deal with all the spoken and unspoken 'Feelings and Emotions', that Grief brings with it; overcoming it, is still a 'Constant, Daily Struggle', that no one else, (not even your closest Friends or Family) can really comprehend or understand, even if they mean well.

...And then, every once in a while, there are people, who try their best to steamroll over, all your efforts to keep smiling, by saying that 'Life has dealt you, a better deal than them'. It really tempts me to say,  How I wish they had My Life!!!😔😢


(Originally posted on FB, on 19th Nov. '2019. Had taken almost a 5 year break, from posting on this Blog. So, trying to share some of the old things, that I've written during those years now, so that I can collect a lot of my writing, in this one place.)


Tuesday, December 12, 2023

WHERE HAVE ALL THE SMILES GONE? 🤔✍️


A little girl of ten, with wonder in her eyes,

Was suddenly forced to grow up, one day;

This twisted accident called 'Life', turned her into 'An Only Child'.

And filled her tiny heart with a million questions, with dismay.


A surprised visitor was greeted at her door,

With that forever brightly beaming face,

"You've taught me how to Smile", he exclaimed,

Of her heart-piercing sorrow, that 'curved line', left no trace.


At thirty, she spent six anxious Christmas days,

Between hospitals, ICU's and an Operating Room, 

While her friends were singing 'Gloria in Excelsis Deo',

She spent those days and nights, in unexpected impending gloom.


Though lost and taken aback by another unforseen reality,

She and her mother, thanked them all with a grateful smile;

"She must have not been close to her Dad", a colleague concluded,

That 'curved line', her natural cover-up, was now her style.


Six months later, the hospital visits resumed,

With a severity and regularity like never before;

Eight years and two cancers later, she was barely thirty-eight,

The Life and Family she once knew and loved, all gone and no more.


Five years since then, she doesn't Smile as much,

Yet each day she tries to find the smallest reason to sing,

"Where have you been? We hardly see you anymore", this recluse is often asked now,

That 'curved line' tied to precious memories, to only that she does tightly cling.✨️



Tuesday, November 28, 2023

MAKING THE WORLD SING ✨️✍️



Barry Manilow singing 'I WRITE THE SONGS'.😊🎶

(From a 1978 BBC Special)


Carlton Braganza somehow always manages to sing every song, almost as well, and often even better, than the original singers. Some people are just 'Super Talented'.🎤❤️



I WRITE THE SONGS ✨️✍️  (Song Lyrics)
- Barry Manilow

I've been alive forever
And I wrote the very first song
I put the words and the melodies together
I am music
And I write the songs

I write the songs that make the whole world sing
I write the songs of love and special things
I write the songs that make the young girls cry
I write the songs, I write the songs

My home lies deep within you
And I've got my own place in your soul
Now when I look out through your eyes
I feel young again, even tho' I'm very old

I write the songs that make the whole world sing
I write the songs of love and special things
I write the songs that make the young girls cry
I write the songs, I write the songs

Oh, my music makes you dance and gives you spirit to take a chance
And I wrote some rock 'n roll so you can move
Music fills your heart, well that's a real fine place to start
It's from me, it's for you
It's from you, it's for me
It's a worldwide symphony

I write the songs that make the whole world sing
I write the songs of love and special things
I write the songs that make the young girls cry
I write the songs, I write the songs

I write the songs that make the whole world sing
I write the songs of love and special things
I write the songs that make the young girls cry
I write the songs, I write the songs

I am music and I write the songs 🎶❤️





CLUTCH THAT CRUTCH ✨️✍️



Fragile and Sensitive
Damaged and Bruised
Mortal and Human
Keep Cruising Along Anyway.

Sometimes Strong
Sometimes, Maybe Not
Halting, Faltering
Keep Hobbling Along Anyway.

Peaceful Days
Restless Nights
Smiles or Tears
Keep Waltzing Along Anyway.

Faith or Friends,
A Memory or a Melody;
'Clutch that Crutch', you really Need
And Keep Sailing Along Anyway.😊


(Originally posted on fb, a year ago, on 28th November '22. Shared this pic that I found online, with the post, because I thought it somehow captured the essence of what I had written. Don't know who took it though.)


Friday, November 24, 2023

REFLECTIONS AROUND US ✍️

 


In the water 

We see the sun on the ripples and waves,

Making it shine so sparkling bright,

Like a thousand twinkling stars at night.


In a mirror

We see an image of what the world can see;

But beyond that appearance, perfect or not,

Is the real person, the looking-glass hasn't caught.


In the eyes

We see every laugh, every tear, every deep thought;

Though our words, we may think are a great disguise,

They talk and speak, Look into them if you're wise.


In a heart

We may not always know, what's hidden in there;

Deep feelings, unspoken thoughts, filled to the brim,

Its glow, warmth and light, nothing could ever dim.✨️


(Originally shared this as a post on FB, last year on 24th November '22. 

I just found these pics online and thought they matched what I had written. So shared them too, though I don't know who took them.)

Thursday, November 16, 2023

DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS ✍️

 

DO YOU SEE WHAT I SEE?🤔

One Word - Different Perspectives
One Object - Varied Facets

One Country - Myriad Traditions
One World - Diverse Cultures

One Person - Multiple Personalities
One Life - Complex Experiences

How two people see one thing, got me wondering,
About how wonderfully unique we all are;
'Everywhere' and 'Somewhere', both places to belong,
Ripples in a steady lake, An ocean wave traversing far.

The same things, could mean something different,
Cause opinions vary, with no one right or wrong;
Each individual perceives the world in distinct ways,
Like multiple beautiful versions of a song.🎶😊💕

(Originally posted on FB a year ago, on the 16th of November'22.)

Wednesday, November 15, 2023

ANTICIPATION ✍️

 

The results of a test, that you think you aced,
A marksheet, after an exam you just faced.

10 minutes at a bus-stop on a humid day,
A train that decides, it'll arrive when it may.

The onset of the monsoon, so you won't fry,
A shady tree when it's hot, to find we try.

The sight of food, after the aroma drew you in,
The dessert that comes next, is always a sure win.

Postmen who stopped by, when snail-mail was king,
Stories and posts, when notification bells ring.

Little moments and situations, that we eagerly await,
I'm looking at the calendar, 'What is today's date?'🤔

(Originally shared on FB a year ago, on 15th November' 22.)

Saturday, November 11, 2023

REAL ILLUSIONS ✍️

Found this picture online some time ago and thought it was so well done. I don't know who created it, but to whoever did.👍 I guess, it depends on what you're focusing on. Look carefully and once you see it, I think you will be amazed too.😊 

It also got me thinking about how so much of our lives, is a dance between 'what's Real and what is merely an Illusion, that often stems from an Over-Imaginative Mind'. 

What an Artist does with Colours, a Writer does with Words.✨️

MY WORLD OF WORDS✍️

So, what're you going to write about?
That's a question a lot of people ask;
But the answer to that, I know not yet,
Just baby steps now, before the real task.

Can writing ever be completely 'real'?
I sometimes have to question myself;
Imagination, Illusion, Fiction and Fact
All jumbled up, in every book on the shelf.

Where does Inspiration come from?
Everywhere, Somewhere, you never know;
A person, a picture, a word, a song,
Once a thought wanders through, 'Off you go'.

What's the most fascinating thing about it?
This Word-Play in the stadium of Life; 
Giving a voice to feelings, Real enough to cry,
The sheer Joy of creating, a pathway out of strife.😊

(Originally posted on FB on 24th November' 22)

DE-CLUTTERING THE MIND ✍️

When I was growing up, I used to steer clear of groups of boys, who were standing or sitting together on building compound walls in the neighbourhood. They somehow always seemed to have something to say about every person who walked past, which obviously made those who were passing by, a little uncomfortable and nervous, and often caused us to try and avoid venturing out at the times, when these compound wall chats happened.

Then some years later I went to college; and once again, I found this different group of guys there as well, who constantly stood around a particular spot, and passed comments about everyone who walked by. I don't think they ever realised how many people (girls especially) preferred to take a longer round-about route, to go wherever they needed to go, just so that they didn't become a part of those daily male gossip sessions.

Almost two decades after that, (because I worked with mostly women during that time, where my female colleagues always out-numbered the male ones; and so thankfully, I didn't have to deal with that discomfort, during those years), I was re-visited by those very similar unsettling feelings once more. They somehow took me right back in time, and made me think of those childhood compound wall boys, and those college bullies, who were just always standing around, making everyone feel uncomfortable, with their unkind remarks and boyish giggles. 

You would probably think, that boys mature and outgrow those silly school and college-boy habits, when they turn into men. However, I discovered that this group, was still doing exactly the same thing, each time they got together. 

Pulling people down with harsh words, being rude and unkind, at the drop of a hat, passing judgements based on their own personal biases; to a point where they actually began to seem like those same 'bullies' that I used to keep my distance from, both in my neighbourhood and in college.

Grown men, with wives and children, still behaving like they could say 'anything' to and about anyone; and all the time, not even caring how their 'insensitive words' (that they consider jokes), could really affect another person's morale or hurt another person. Someone, who may just be trying to find a small way, to make them smile everyday; and ended up finding 'insensitivity' instead.😔

Experiences like these just make me wonder about so many things...

What makes people so critical and cynical in life, that they have to always pass rude remarks and offensive comments about other people?

Why can't people just 'live and let live', instead of always having an opinion about everything that someone else does, to the point of causing the other, a feeling of discomfort in their presence?

Why don't people realise that the same things that they are saying and doing to others today, may one day come full circle and happen to someone, in their own families too?

I don't usually write posts like these, (and maybe my words and thoughts won't even matter and may just be passed off as 'nonsense or rubbish' by a few); but occasionally, there are things that need to be said, because 'what is of no consequence to someone, may actually matter to another'. Also because, these thoughts have been weighing heavily on the mind for a very long time. Unfortunately though, saying them to the people who actually need to hear it, only results in hurt and misunderstandings, leading to 'fractured friendships' (which no one really wants to cause or happen). 

But I guess, at the same time, getting it out of the system and putting it down in words somewhere, is extremely necessary for our own sanity and peace of mind. It's what might probably prevent us, from turning into just another over-cynical and extremely critical individual.

...and it is always better to be a person, who simply tries to 'fill the world with a little ray of sunshine', even in the tiniest of ways, if and when we can.✍️


Thursday, November 09, 2023

NEW ADVENTURES...NEW BEGINNINGS ✍️


As someone who loves to write, I know that the minute I start writing something new, the thoughts just flow; and sometimes, I have to rein myself in and force myself to stop...Otherwise, I can just go on and on and on.😊 Friends who've been at the listening end or who are forced to read what I write, would know exactly what I mean.😂

I guess, every new thing we do in life, is kind of like writing a new story too.💕 At the beginning, you're completely clueless about where it's going to lead; but slowly, the thoughts become a wonderful creation of words and feelings...and so often, when I go back and read things that I've written, I wonder where those thoughts came from or how I ever came up with whatever I was reading.

I guess, till we actually set out on a new adventure of creating something new, we would never know that we can actually do it.❤


(Originally posted on FB, last year on the 3rd of April '22. 

These pictures, I just found on the internet in a random search and I shared them, because they matched what I wanted to say.)

THE WONDER OF YOU ✨️✍️

 

Different
Unique
One of a kind;
Exceptional
Unusual
Not easy to find.

Distinctive
Individual
With no parallel;
Outstanding
Remarkable
So completely swell.

Rare
Special
A class apart;
Singular
Extraordinary
A work of art.

Strangely Spectacular
The Creator's ways;
No Duplication
His policy stays.

Carefully Crafted
With utmost Care;
Artistic Genius
Each, Beyond Compare.

Amazingly Awesome
A Mysterious Melody;
Imperfect Perfection
In Genetic Harmony.

You're A 'Masterpiece'
'Limited Edition' Alright;
Another Like You
Is Nowhere in Sight.️✍️

If we substitute 'You' with 'Me'; we would have some 'Self-Affirmations' and some 'Positive Reinforcement' to make us feel so good, about 'The Wonder' that We Truly Are.😊

For all those times, when we need to remind ourselves of the fact that,
'I Am Me and I Am Special'.❤️

As I wrote this post, it took me back to a memory with my mum.😊️ We had this kind of 'special joke' between us, when I would sometimes say to her; 'You know, you're lucky to have a daughter like ME'...and her reply would always be, 'I know I am'❤️...and those simple moments, would always make us laugh and keep smiling for a long time.😊

Writing sometimes stems from a memory; and at other times, it brings back an old memory.✨️❤️✍️

(Originally posted on FB, earlier this year on the 16th of February '23.)


GOING PLACES ✍️

 

A little world of my own,
That no one else can share;
Probably only a select few,
Find their way in there.

A little virtual space,
My alternate reality in a way;
A welcome hideaway, an escape,
Comfort I turn to everyday.

A little cozy nook, I love to be,
Where words suddenly appear;
Like a fountain sprinkling joy,
Making the silence, magically disappear.

A little parallel dimension,
Imagination, Creativity, A Dream;
Somewhere, it all flows as freely,
As a harmonious, glimmering stream.

A little mirage, this sunlit paradise,
My Happy Place, you know;
Sometimes 'Blessings' just happen,
Setting Grateful Smiles aglow.✨️😊

(Originally posted on FB, earlier this year on the 24th of February '23) 

WHEN THOUGHTS BECOME WORDS ✍️


WANDERING THOUGHTS ✍️

Imperfectly Perfect
People

Impossibly Possible
Situations

Indefinitely Definite
Moments

Infinitely Finite
Life

(Originally posted on FB, last year on 9th November'22)

Tuesday, November 07, 2023

THE HEAD vs THE HEART✍️

 

Sometimes, I just feel like putting down my thoughts in verse, and exercising those poetic skills too; instead of just long endless paragraphs. Today is one of those days.🙂

Always a tough decision...When faced with a choice, which one do you listen to more?🤔

THE HEAD vs THE HEART

Often on two opposite tracks,
Both direct us on which way to turn;
But which one we must listen to,
Is a lesson very hard to learn.

For they both seem to have their reasons,
And they both seem to be so right;
But somehow, most times they confuse us,
Leave us questioning, wondering thru' the night.

The head is always so logical
Seems to leave nothing to chance;
The heart of course is carefree
Ever ready to get out there, to dance.

In listening to one, you may be correct now;
But one day, you may realise you were wrong.
How do you choose which way to go?
In this tug of war, which team is strong?

I guess some guidance would always help,
From family, from friends, from God above;
Cause the head may know which way to go,
But a heartless decision it would be, with no Love.✨️❤


(I first shared this as a post on FB on 24th June, 2022. I posted this picture that I found online in a random search, with my post, only because it matched what I had written, so perfectly.)

I DIDN'T ASK, DID I? 🤔✍️

 


There's no 'quick-fix solution' to anything in life
I wish more people could understand that;
Every time you offer someone an 'instant remedy',
Which seems to just flow, right off your bat.

It's probably human nature to problem solve,
And so it comes automatically to a few;
But there are some self-professed 'hermit crabs',
Who prefer to find their own way, in its lieu.

You may think your suggestions will help
Someone that seems lost, or so you think;
But those nesting crablets, always find the ocean
And some weather beaten ships, don't easily sink.

Curious, inquiring minds, with noses that poke a lot,
Are the reason some would rather be alone;
Quiet concern and 'a listening ear', more appreciated
Than intrusive fixers, who're always 'in the zone'.🙊


If you've ever been at the receiving end of 'unsolicited free advice', you'll get this post, a little quicker than the ones, who constantly dish it out.😊 With my 'teacher' hat on, I think this comes naturally to me; and I may probably be guilty, of offering unwanted advice, innumerable times to students, family and friends too. So maybe, this post is for me also.🤷‍♀️

But actually, over the last few years of pondering, while retreating into a relatively 'silent cocoon', away from the maddening crowd; I've realised that I consciously stay away from any and all situations, where I have to communicate with and talk to people (preferring virtual interactions, over real ones, like a 'friendly recluse'), precisely because I do not wish to hear anybody's opinions about my life situations, during 'every' interaction.

May seem like a very extreme and unhealthy 'coping mechanism'; but every time I do take a step out of my sound-proofed comfort zone; the annoying voices of the overbearing, willing helpers, drown out my solitude completely.

So, I think this is some 'Free Advice', to anyone who thinks they are being helpful; 'Don't butt in, till someone asks for your assistance. Let people find their own way'. Everyone eventually does, at their own pace and in their own time.😊


(I first shared this post on FB last year, on 27th October, 2023. Obviously, I was in some strange mood, when I wrote this 'very uncharacteristic' post. Found a picture that matched that crazy mood, online as well.)

Monday, November 06, 2023

BEING DIFFERENTLY 'ME'.✍️

 


Our differences make us unique
And give us a mind of our own;
They add variety and spice to life,
And when we co-exist, we've grown.

When we're different, we stand out
We make a mark in the world;
Countless 'out of the box' ideas
In an innovative mind, are twirled.

Seeing everything around us differently
Gives us new perspectives, new insights;
Every creative thought makes us soar
To reach, unbelievable new heights.

But, being different could also mean,
Fitting in, is not always a piece of cake;
It's really impossible to fit into a groove
To be who you're not, to be fake.

Just two different, like chalk and cheese
And never the twain shall meet;
Like parallel lines, running side by side
Nowhere intersecting, forever incomplete.

Our differences make us who we are
In this world, help us make a place;
But instead of celebrating that variety
Why do we wear masks over our face? 🤔✍️


(Went online to find the stories of those cover pics, of the two 'Children's Story Books' I shared with my post today. Just found those pics in a random search and then went to check, what the stories were about.😊

The stories were lovely; and one of them led me to this video. It's meant for kids, but with a lesson for everyone. I liked it. So, thought I would share it for anyone who wants to listen to a nice little uplifting story for kids, that kind of matches what I wrote in this post.)💕

YOU ARE SPECIAL

- Max Lucado


(I originally shared this post on FB, a year ago on the 6th of November'22)



WHEN I NEED YOU✨️❤️

 


WHEN I NEED YOU (Leo Sayer)

- Carlton Braganza and Sonia Shirsat

  (Jukebox Jammies, Live from Lisbon)

One of those songs, that you can keep listening to over and over again, because it's so melodious and meaningful.✨️❤️

DO WE REALLY KNOW?🤔✍️


OF LOVE AND LOSS ✨️❤️

That faraway look in those tear-filled eyes,
A thousand crazy questions whirling around,
A million confused thoughts in that restless mind,
Everyone's talking; but she can't hear a sound.

I want to say, 'How well I know this pain!'
And I wish, her anguish I could share;
Instead, I quietly sit close by, holding her hand,
Just so she knows, that 'I'm There'.

Words almost seem like 'noise' sometimes,
A meaningless jumble, a clanging cymbal, a resounding gong;
Pointless, Unnecessary - They bring absolutely no comfort,
Even from a well-meaning, concerned, friendly throng.

No one really knows that feeling of loss,
Even if you've been there yourself, a few times before;
Every painful experience is different, Each one's story, 'Their Own',
On this, our inevitable solitary journey, towards heaven's door.✨️✍️

Two of my teacher friends from DB, lost their husbands over the last two weeks; and one of them (whose life partner bid adieu to this world, only a couple of days ago) used to sit right next to me in the staffroom, for many, many years...When you've worked together for two long decades, you get to know the families of your colleagues, a little bit as well; a few, more than others. You meet them at school events, family functions and occasions; you keep hearing about everyday household stories and experiences, in free periods and at recess time in school; and if you happen to live in the same vicinity, you even bump into them at random places like the market or the bank, or they sometimes give you a lift, on your way to school as well. In the process, they become a tiny part of your world too.😔

So, when they just suddenly and unexpectedly vanish one day, (and at a very young age too), it is as much of a shock to you, as it is to your friend and her family. You're left just as lost and speechless, as everyone else. You actually know all those feelings, that she is going through, and you almost re-live them, all over again...The million questions, the innumerable words left unspoken, the countless things left incomplete and half-done, the sense of being completely overwhelmed, by the enormity of everything that is still to be done, in this (who knows how long) uncertain life, that lies ahead.

...But more than anything, it just breaks your already wounded and bruised heart, one more time.😪                  

ONE MORE DAY 🎶

- Diamond Rio (Boyce Avenue)