THE RAINBOW CONNECTION ✨️🌈

 

THE RAINBOW CONNECTION 🎶

- Tori Kelly and Kermit, the Frog

An old Xavierite friend, Andrea Fernandes, shared this song yesterday. Today, just happens to be the Feast of St.Ignatius of Loyola. So, I thought I would share this song, because hearing Andrea sing this song, reminded me of all the many, many awesome 'Super-Talented Friends' and special 'Musical Connections', that studying in two Jesuit institutions - St.Xavier's College in Marine Lines and St.Xavier's Institute of Education (The B.Ed. College) in Churchgate, brought into my life. 

Andrea and me sang together often, in both those institutions. We didn't ever sing this song back then; but somehow hearing the song, brought back a lot of happy Musical Memories, from those years.

(Cover by Andrea Fernandes)

This song has been covered by many artists ever since it was first written, including 'The Carpenters' and 'Willie Nelson'; but it was originally composed for 'The Muppet Movie' (1979) and performed by Jim Henson, as 'Kermit, the Frog'. Am sharing another one of those many versions here.

(A Duet by Debbie Harry and Kermit the Frog)

Strangely, Kermit also reminds me of 'Puddles- The Frog', who was the mascot for 'Malhar' - The Xavier's College Festival, which coincidentally happens, around this time of the year, in August every year.

Sometimes, a song may not be linked to a memory directly; but it makes these very unexpected nostalgic 'Connections', that take us back in time.😊

...and me being me, I had to also look for a video that speaks about the 'Story behind the Song'. Was happy to find this one, in which the story is shared with us, by one of the original songwriters.

THE STORY BEHIND THE SONG

THE RAINBOW CONNECTION 🎶🌈 (Song Lyrics)
- Jim Henson (Kermit the Frog)

Why are there so many
Songs about rainbows,
And what's on the other side?

Rainbows are visions,
They're only illusions,
And rainbows have nothing to hide.

So we've been told
And some chose to believe it;
But I know they're wrong,
Wait and see.

Someday we'll find it
The Rainbow Connection,
The Lovers, the Dreamers and Me.

Who said that every wish,
Would be heard and answered,
When wished on the morning star?

Somebody thought of that,
And someone believed it,
And look what it's done so far.

What's so amazing,
That keeps us star gazing;
What do we think, we might see?

Someday we'll find it,
That Rainbow Connection,
The Lovers, the Dreamers and Me.

Have you been fast asleep,
And have you heard voices?
I've heard them calling my name.

Is this the sweet sound,
That calls the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same.

I've heard it too many times to ignore it,
It's something that I'm supposed to be.

Someday we'll find it
The Rainbow Connection
The Lovers, the Dreamers and Me.✨️❤️

(Jim Henson and The Muppets)

(Another version by John Legend, Queen Latifah, Miss Piggy and Kermit the Frog)

(Videos uploaded by various people on YT and the collage is made up of pictures I found on the internet.)

COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS ✨️

 

(When FB Memories reminds me of six year old posts like these, it really makes me ponder and think about so many things.

This was something I wrote, on the 28th of July' 2018. That was during the last couple of months of my Mum's life, when she was only under 'Palliative Care'. After battling two Cancers, over a span of about nine years, there was nothing more that Medical Science could do. As a result of the rapidly spreading Cancer cells, and the large number of Chemo sessions, which she already went through, her body had become too frail and just couldn't take any more.😢

Without Medication, she was under such a tremendous amount of pain, that on most days, she didn't even know who I was. I spoke to her, but didn't get a response from her. She was there and not there, at the same time.💔

Only I know, what those last three months of her life were like.😞

What a struggle it was, to go to work every day, and to try and concentrate on whatever I had to do there; when all the while, my terribly stressed out and sleep-deprived mind, was not really sure if she would still be alive, when I got back home.😢

People often speak about 'Functioning on Auto-Pilot'. During those months, and in the years after she passed away, I actually experienced and understood, what going through life on 'Auto-Pilot' meant.

...And in the midst of all that, I wrote posts like these on FB, every other day.🤔

Looking back, I think I probably had more 'Faith and Strength' in those times, than I do now, six years later. Maybe, these 'Self-Motivating' posts, were just my way of reminding myself, to 'Trust and Keep the Faith', even though I knew what was coming.🤷🏻‍♀️

Today, I guess these old posts come back to me as 'Reminders', to 'Keep Going, even when I don't understand why.')

28th July '2018 ✍️

Every single person goes through tough times and it is very easy to grumble, complain, point fingers and find faults, during these rough patches in our lives. These are also moments when we could easily 'Blame God', for everything that is going wrong and question Him, about why He is letting things happen to us. 

However, if we try and be 'Grateful' for the tiny little 'Blessings' that we see around us, even in those trying times, our burdens would definitely become so much easier to bear, simply because we are making a conscious effort, to focus on the happier and positive side of life, even at times when it is hardest to do so.😊

(Am also adding two Gospel songs to this post today, that I love; because like this old post, they just remind me, to 'Count My Blessings' and to 'Sing of the Goodness of God', even in moments when I don't really feel like singing anymore.)

GOODNESS OF GOD 🎶

- Cece Winans

COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS 🎶

- Guy Penrod

(The picture above, is one that I just found on the Internet)

I'M EVERYTHING I AM, BECAUSE YOU LOVED ME. ✨️❤️

Parent's Day makes me think of songs like 'Wind Beneath My Wings' and 'You Raise Me Up' because the lyrics of both those songs, are very meaningful.

But I also think, that the lyrics of this song by Celine Dion, are so beautiful, and perfect words of 'Gratitude' for our Parents, even when they're not around anymore, to hear this song.😢

(This version of the song is one that I found online, from a Tribute to Oprah Winfrey.)

BECAUSE YOU LOVED ME 🎶 (Song Lyrics)

- Celine Dion

For all those times you stood by me,
For all the truth that you made me see,
For all the Joy you brought to my life,
For all the wrong that you made right;
For every dream you made come true,
For all the Love I found in you,
I'll be 'Forever Thankful'.

You're the One who held me up,
Never let me fall;
You're the One who saw me through, through it all.

You were my strength when I was weak,
You were my voice when I couldn't speak,
You were my eyes when I couldn't see,
You saw the Best there was in me;
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach,
You gave me Faith 'cause You Believed,

I'm Everything I Am
Because You Loved Me.✨️❤️

You gave me wings and made me fly,
You touched my hand, I could touch the sky,
I lost my Faith, you gave it back to me,
You said no star was out of reach;
You stood by me and I stood tall,
I had your Love, I had it All,
I'm 'Grateful' for each day you gave me;

Maybe I don't know that much,
But I know this much is true;
I was 'Blessed' because I was Loved by You.

You were my strength when I was weak,
You were my voice when I couldn't speak,
You were my eyes when I couldn't see,
You saw the Best there was in me;
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach,
You gave me Faith 'cause You Believed;

I'm Everything I Am,
Because You Loved Me.✨️❤️

You were Always There for Me,
The tender wind that carried me,
A Light in the dark, shining your Love into my Life;
You've been 'My Inspiration',
Through the lies you were the Truth,
My world is a Better Place, because of You.

You were my strength when I was weak,
You were my voice when I couldn't speak,
You were my eyes when I couldn't see,
You saw the Best there was in me;
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach,
You gave me Faith 'cause You Believed;

I'm Everything I Am,
Because You Loved Me.✨️❤️

YOU RAISE ME UP, TO MORE THAN I CAN BE ✨️❤️

 

For many years now, like so many Birthdays, Anniversaries and other Special Days and Occasions, that keep coming up, all year round, 'Parents Day' is another one of those days, when I can't really wish anyone, anymore.

So, all I do is 'Remember'.✨️

FB Memories reminded me of a couple of 'Special JJ Memories' today. This is one of them.❤️

PARENT'S DAY SPECIAL - JJ 104 

(26th July '2020)

...And there was one song, that didn't play completely on this show, for some reason. So, Carlton shared that video separately a little after the session. It was a 'Birthday Surprise' for Dwayne Das. I love the song. So, am sharing that video too.

YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND ✨️🎶

(Darren Das / Brian Tellis / Carlton Braganza and introduced by Neale Murray)

ONE MOMENT IN TIME 🥇🥈🥉

 

ONE MOMENT IN TIME 🎶 (Song Lyrics)

- Whitney Houston

Each day I live
I want to be,
A day to give
The Best of Me;
I'm only one
But not alone,
My finest day
Is yet unknown.

I broke my heart,
Fought every gain,
To taste the sweet
I face the pain;
I rise and fall
Yet through it all,
This much remains.

I want One Moment in Time,
When I'm more than I thought I could be;
When all of my Dreams are a heartbeat away,
And the Answers are all up to me.

Give me One Moment in Time,
When I'm racing with destiny;
Then in that One Moment of Time,
I will Feel
I will Feel Eternity.

I've lived to be
The very Best,
I want it all
No time for less;
I've laid the plans
Now lay the chance,
Here in my hands.

Give me One Moment in Time,
When I'm more than I thought I could be;
When all of my Dreams are a heartbeat away,
And the Answers are all up to me.

Give me One Moment in Time,
When I'm racing with destiny;
Then in that One Moment of Time,
I will Feel
I will Feel Eternity.

You're a Winner for a Lifetime,
If you seize that One Moment in Time,
Make it Shine.✨️

Give me One Moment in Time,
When I'm more than I thought I could be;
When all of my Dreams are a heartbeat away,
And the Answers are all up to me.

Give me One Moment in Time,
When I'm racing with destiny;
Then in that One Moment of Time,
I will be
I will be
I will be Free
I will be
I will be Free.🥇🥈🥉

(1988 Summer Olympics, Seoul, South Korea)

UP WHERE WE BELONG ✨️❤️

 

When it comes to Gospel Music, I enjoy listening to a lot of the songs by the 'Gaither Vocal Band'. They have some amazing singers, sing lovely harmonies and often invite great guest performers too. One of my favourite singers among them, is Guy Penrod. 

I heard these two songs, a couple of days ago, and liked them. So, am sharing. 

It also kind of matches, what I've been writing about, in my previous two posts as well. But those were two really long posts. So, I decided to share these, in a separate one. I guess, this is just the 'Theme' or the 'Mood' this week.🤷🏻‍♀️

KNOWING YOU'LL BE THERE 🎶

- Gaither Vocal Band

'It makes me want to go there,

Knowing I won't be Alone;

Knowing You'll Be There,

Makes it easy to go Home.'

HOME 🎶

- Gaither Vocal Band

'Home, where there is no night,

Home, where the Sun is alight,

The Place, I've been dreaming for so long;

Loved Ones there, to Welcome me,

But His sweet face, will be the first I see,

When my Journey's over, I am going Home.'

MOVING ON... 🤔

 

Over the years, I've watched different people among my friends and extended family, cope with the pain, loss and heartbreak, that the 'Loss of a Loved One' automatically brings, very differently.

No doubt, everyone feels extreme sadness, and the 'Reality' always takes a while, to truly sink in, for everybody. Whether the loss was sudden and unexpected, or whether it came at the end of a long and difficult period of sickness and struggle, which kind of makes people aware, that it's going to happen soon; the 'Pain' is still the same, for every human being, anywhere in the world.

The Emotions 'Expressed or Not Expressed', on the day of a Funeral, don't always portray the true picture, or the depth of what someone may be 'Feeling'. While some are unable to control their 'Tears', on a day like that; others may choose to meet and greet, those who've taken the time to be there, with a 'Warm Smile of Gratitude', instead of Tears. A lot of people prefer to cry in silence, when they're alone, rather than in front of the whole world.

When it comes to 'Perspectives', on how long people are supposed to Grieve, or how much time is needed to Overcome the Pain, after a Loss; there are as many 'Opinions', as there are people in the world. Phrases and comments related to this, that I hear very, very often are:

He/She hasn't come out of it yet!

You need to 'Start Living' again.

How long are you going to hold on?

You have to 'Let Go'!

You must do something, to divert your mind.

Focus on your work. It'll help you forget.

Keep yourself busy and occupied.

You can't keep wallowing forever.

If you keep thinking about it, you'll never 'come out of it'.

It has been so many years now. He/She would have wanted you to 'Move On'.

Time Heals!

...and there are countless other lines like these, that I frequently hear people saying, all the time. In my opinion, a lot of these are so terribly 'INSENSITIVE', even though most people think they 'mean well', when they say things like this. 

More than them wanting 'You' to Cope with Grief though, I often feel that the people around you (including Friends and Family sadly) say things like these, when they really don't know what else to say, or how to deal with, seeing another person expressing their sadness and emotions, for an extended period of time. 

So statements like these, are often their way of indirectly saying, 'I have had enough of all your Crying. I think that's enough now. Just Stop!'

I know, that this is another 'generalization' that I am making, which may not be the case for everyone. There are a lot of times, when people who 'Care and are Close to You', may genuinely want you to get back to 'Life as it used to be'. 

What they unfortunately fail to realise, is that 'Life can never ever go back, to the way it used to be'; and that's the 'Harsh Reality', which not everyone Understands, till they Experience what you have gone through, themselves.

So often, I wish I could just 'tell people off', or 'say what I truly think', about statements like the ones above. I may have written about them, a few times before as well, whenever things like these have bothered me. 

Thoughts like these, are always floating around in my head. So putting it down in writing somewhere, just clears it all out of my mind, and prevents my brain from exploding, at least for the moment. 

People who pass remarks like these, all the time - the 'Habitual Advice Givers', really need to make note, of some of the thoughts, that I've written about here.

According to me, every person in this world deals with Pain and Loss differently. So 'Blanket Rules and Statements' (like the ones I mentioned earlier), 'Cannot and Should Not' be applied to everyone Uniformly, when it comes to coping with the 'Loss of a Loved One and dealing with Grief'. 

What works for one person, most certainly will not work for another; because each one finds their own way, and no one way, is right or wrong. '

The 'Time' that each person takes, to 'Process' what has happened, also differs for each individual. So not everyone, 'Copes at the same Pace' as another. There will always be individual differences in the 'Time Frame', that each person takes to deal with Loss and Pain, (ranging from a few months, to a few years, to a Lifetime).

Also, the Intensity, Suddenness, Severity, Frequency and the Number of Losses in a person's life, together with one's Support System (or lack of it), makes the 'Time' that one takes to recover, differ from person to person as well. Sometimes, when an individual has dealt with, 'way too much Loss than they can handle', it becomes that much more difficult to cope. (Not easier at all, as some people conveniently presume.)

Of course, the kind of 'Relationship' one shared with the person who has passed, and the kind of 'emotional stress and physical hardships' that people have had to endure, while being 'Care-Givers', especially during long illnesses, prior to a Loss, also contribute to how one Recovers later.

...And I think, that 'Time doesn't Heal Anything', because it only takes a single moment and a single memory, to trigger off 'A Million Flashbacks'. Irrespective of how many years may have gone by, the mind takes you back to 'Moments of Struggle' and 'Unforgettable Everyday Memories', at the speed of lightening, in a second (set off by the most random things ever)...and that could really happen, as a result of just about anything, anywhere, anytime.

From my own Experiences, I know how the 'Death of a Loved One' just makes you realise, that the one thing, which none of us are truly aware of, is 'How much Time we really have, here on Earth'. 

It makes us conscious of the fact, that 'Nothing Lasts Forever'. 

It teaches us to 'Be More and More Detached', because at the end of it all, we can't take anything or anyone along. We have to just 'Leave it all behind.'

...and I Believe, that it is only on that day, when we bid Adieu to this Life ourselves, that we will really and truly 'MOVE ON'.✍️

BRIDGING THE GENERATION GAP 🤔✍️

 

Weddings and Funerals are almost like 'Mini-Reunions' (at least for me), because for quite a few years now, I very rarely go to places, where I am forced to Mix and Mingle.

Most people my age, who were destined to 'Get Married', are already past that stage. So, the only Weddings I get invited to now, are those of my Ex-Students (which I also don't go for, too often). But these 'Invites' from students, who I have taught many, many years ago, also always remind me, that now, I officially belong to the 'Older Generation', because people who're 20 years younger than me and more, have started 'Finding their Soulmates'.😊

It's amazing how this 'Circle of Life', just keeps going on and on and on. When one generation has gone through the entire cycle, the next generation takes over, and does the exact same things; of course, in their own different and unique ways. And while this happens, those of us who are from the 'Previous Generation', just look on and wonder.

We observe the changes, ponder on the way the world has evolved (since the time when people our age, did those exact same things); and every single day, we keep trying to make sense of 'Our Own Reality', in our 'possibly outdated and old-fashioned' ways.🤔 

There was a time when I used to go for a lot of 'Weddings', because that was a phase, when everyone in my generation seemed to be 'Getting Married'.

A clear indication that there has been a 'Generational Shift' in my life, is that now, I find myself going for more 'Funerals' than Weddings. 

A few of these, are when Friends, who are around my age or a little older, are sadly called from this 'Earthly Life', much earlier than expected, and rather suddenly. But mostly, the Funerals I go for now, are those of the 'Parents of Friends'. 

Just like Weddings, I generally avoid most 'Funerals' too (unless, the person or their family, has been especially close to me). I stay away mostly because, when I go to places where there are lots and lots of familiar people (who know me and who knew my parents), I just can't avoid those same 'Repetitive Questions' (which I've been trying my best to stay away from, for the last 6 years). 

I really don't understand, why people (especially, from my parent's generation) just can't stop themselves, from asking very personal and rather intrusive questions, every time they meet me. I know, that they only do that out of 'Concern', and because they don't see me around very often. To them, I really seem to have disappeared from the face of the earth, since I only make very occasional appearances (by design). 

But it's mostly because, their 'Concerned Queries', really bother me a lot, every single time; since they 'Keep Reminding Me', over and over again, of things that I find hard to forget anyway.😢 I know I should be 'Grateful', that there are so many people, who genuinely 'Care', and 'I Truly Am Thankful' for that...But when they meet me, why can't they just talk about the 'rainy weather' instead?🤷🏻‍♀️

The only 'Answers', that these Uncles and Aunties receive as a response though, are 'Yes', 'No' and a 'Smile', because 'I'm quite an expert at speaking in 'Monosyllables and Smiles', in face to face conversations.😄

I had one of these experiences (again), at a Funeral I went for yesterday. But just when these interactions, kind of overwhelmed me, I thankfully bumped into a couple of really old friends, quite unexpectedly; and when I did, I felt a little relieved...Because somehow, Conversations with Friends, (even those who now live on two different continents far, far away, and who I was meeting after a gap of many years) are so different. 

There were 'No Intrusive Questions' asked and 'No Unnecessary Suggestions' offered. Just a lot of catching up and loads of reminiscing, about the days when we were younger, and all the fun things we did together, as children and youth, which are topics that are so much more Refreshing and Wonderful, to talk about.💕

I keep repeating this statement, every time moments like these trouble me...

'I Love the Memories; but I don't like the Reminders'.😢 

'My Memories' are very, very Special to me. I carry them with me, in my mind and heart, everywhere I go, almost 24/7. I even write about them, all the time...But somehow, I don't like people 'constantly reminding me', of what my life is like now, because of those Memories. That is why, I prefer to hide away, most of the time (especially from familiar people, who've known my family and me, for a long, long time, because they're generally the ones with the 'Twenty Questions').😞

At any given point of time, there are always three or maybe four 'Generations', co-existing on this planet, each with probably a span of 20 years between them. If we stop and think about it, I find it quite interesting to note, how each of these three or four generations, thinks, speaks, lives, grows and evolves, so distinctly and differently from the other.

And yet, somehow we have to find ways and means to 'Bridge this Generational Gap or Divide' and try to co-exist relatively peacefully, despite our differences, as long as we have to continue our 'Journey through this Life'.😊✍️

BRING BACK THE SOUND OF MUSIC ✨️🎶

 

It's good to have a few really awesome friends, who 'Bring Back the Sound of Music' from those old days, every time they sing. Memories of songs that were written and sung, long before we were even born; but which people still remember joyfully and sing, even today.😊

It has been a long, long time, since these 'Happy Reminders' have come along, and I've really missed them a lot. But even though it has been a while, I'm always glad every time these 'Evergreen Songs' are revived and sung, by my very talented friends.🤗❤️

There are lots of different singers who have sung this one, right from 1935 onwards. I'm sharing this Ella Fitzgerald version, because I loved the Orchestra accompaniment.

BEGIN THE BEGUINE 🎶 (Song Lyrics)

- Ella Fitzgerald

When they Begin the Beguine
It brings back, the sound of music so tender,
It brings back, a night of tropical splendor,
It brings back, a memory ever green.

I'm with you once more, under the stars,
And down by the shore, an orchestra's playing
And even the palms, seem to be swaying
When they Begin the Beguine.

To live it again, is past all endeavor,
Except when that tune, clutches my heart,
And there we are, swearing to Love forever,
And promising never, never to part.

What moments divine, what rapture serene,
Till clouds came along, to disperse the Joys we had tasted,
And now when I hear, people curse the chance that was wasted,
I know but too well what they mean;

So don't let them Begin the Beguine
Let the Love that was once a fire, remain an ember;
Let it sleep like the dead desire, I only remember
When they Begin the Beguine.

Oh yes, let them Begin the Beguine, make them play
Till the stars that were there before, return above you,
Till you whisper to me once more,
Darling, I Love You!
And we suddenly know, what heaven we're in,
When they Begin the Beguine.✨️❤️

(And then, there was this Andy Williams version, which I'm also sharing, because it has a softer, lighter accompaniment. This one also sounds nice; and of course, that voice makes every song sound amazing.)😊

(The videos have been uploaded by different people on YT.)

LOVE WILL KEEP US ALIVE ✨️❤️

 

I heard this version, of a song that I've always loved, by a group called 'Brothers of the Heart', on the Gaither page yesterday. Since it is a Lyric Video, and has the lovely words too, I thought I would share this one today.

...Because I've listened to so much of 'Jukebox Jammies', over the last 4 years; there are quite a few songs, that automatically bring back a 'JJ Memory', any time I listen to them. You know how sometimes, when you listen to a Song, it instantly takes you back to a 'Memory', or to 'One Particular Moment in Time'. Like that, for me there are certain songs, that instantly take me back to a 'JJ Moment'.😊 Maybe I have listened to a little too much of JJ. So, it just happens.🤷🏻‍♀️

This one, was when Carlton Braganza did an online session, together with my other 'Favourite Lockdown Entertainers', Tammy and Roy from Goa, on JJ #177, and sang a song for the two of them, on the show.❤️ 

I used to listen to Tammy and Roy (Silver Linings) very often, in those days; and they somehow always reminded me of Goa, family get-togethers, sing-song sessions at home and holidays in Goa.🌴🌊

Actually, I don't speak either of the two languages, but others in my family did, and my Grandfather used to sing a lot of Portuguese songs. So the many 'Konkani and Portuguese Songs' which Tammy and Roy sang (with Gavin and Bambino too), made me feel very Nostalgic.😊

It was an 'Instant Connection', the very first time I heard them sing a few songs, on the 'Soul Fry Community' page; and then later, when they did online sessions, on their own page as well.🎶

I remember that the 'Tammy and Roy' show with Carlton, happened after two failed attempts, when for some reasons, the session got postponed a couple of times. So, when it finally did happen, it was called 'Third Time's a Charm'.😄

I really was the happiest person around, when they did a session with Carlton on JJ, because it brought 'My Favourites' together.✨️

Since Tammy and Roy still go 'Live' regularly, from wherever they perform, we continue to hear them sing, a few times every week, which lots of people all over the world, still enjoy and are very 'Thankful' for.🤗❤️

There are some Songs, that you just never get tired of listening to. So, I'm also posting a third video of this same song today; but this one, is by those who originally made this song popular - The Eagles.🎶

THIRD TIME'S A CHARM ‐ JJ # 177 🎶

- Tammy and Roy with Carlton Braganza

(22nd May ' 2021)

Sharing this entire video also, just to Keep that Lovely 'JJ Memory' Alive.💞

HERE COMES THE SUN ✨️❤️

 

The wonderfully gifted 'Fernandes Family' from Bangalore. What a super-talented musical family! ❤

So glad the lockdown and Jukebox Jammies, introduced me to this lovely bunch of singers and musicians, all in One Family. How special when all 7 siblings and their parents too, have lovely voices. They perform together, along with a few friends (mostly in Bangalore) and are called 'Fernandes Music'. 🎶

Of course, even though I first heard them on Carlton Braganza's Jukebox Jammies, they also went on to do a lot of 'Live Sessions' themselves, on their own page as well, during that time, which were very, very enjoyable.💕

This is a video that they put together during the Pandemic, when the couldn't perform on stage...and there are one or two from the next generation, in this one too.😊

HERE COMES THE SUN 🎶

- Fernandes Music (The Beatles)

(They had shared this video on the 'Fernandes Music' pages, on the 19th of July ' 2020; exactly 4 years ago. Another 'Happy FB Memory' from this day.)

...and since I thought of them, I'm also sharing two videos from 2 different JJ sessions, when the Fernandes Family joined Carlton Braganza, to sing for everyone.😊

THE GREASE MEGA-MIX - JJ # 83 ❤️

- John and Dawn Fernandes

I'M LOVING ANGELS INSTEAD - JJ #112 ✨️

- Ozie Fernandes (Robbie Williams)

HAPPENS TO EVERYONE...SOMETIMES 🤷🏻‍♀️✍️

 

(Another two year old post, from 19th July ' 22, which FB reminded me of, today. One more to add to the collection, of things I had written and then forgotten about.)

If there is one 'Emotion', that makes an appearance least of all for me, it would have to be this one. If there was something called an 'Angry Bone', I think I wasn't really born with one.😊

That definitely doesn't mean, I never get angry at all. There most certainly are moments when I get 'Irritated' and sometimes 'Infuriated', by situations, by things people say, at the way people behave, by people who just have to express their opinion, even when it wasn't asked for, and so much more. In fact, it's one such moment, that prompted me to write this, in the first place.😂 

I wouldn't be human, if I didn't get irritated sometimes...but somehow, I've learned how to 'Channelise' all that negativity, in such a way, that my 'Reactions' don't result in rage or outbursts of 'Words', that you can't take back, once you've let them go. 

Maybe, I was born to be more like 'the ocean on a calm sunshiny day', rather than 'on the day of a raging storm'. Maybe I developed 'Patience', over years of working with teenagers, who could often make you lose your cool; and even though, I sometimes gave them a piece of my mind and raised my voice, to the point of having absolutely strained vocal cords, for many, many years, the maximum reaction would be 'walking away from the situation' or probably 'quietly shedding a tear or two'. 

Of course, there were times when I really wished, that I could correct some of that unruly behaviour and teach them a lesson for life, in just the way we were taught to behave and do the right things, when we were growing up. Unfortunately, (because I didn't always agree with this) 'the rules' always brought out more controlled and acceptable reactions instead.

I think, the best way I deal with almost any kind of emotion though, is just by 'Writing' about it.🙂 Writing is extremely Therapeutic. I always find, that putting it all down in Words, is somehow a better way, to release any kind of Feelings or Emotions, both Positive and Negative. Also, when you go back and read something you had written, months or years later; it makes you reflect and ponder on how much you have changed or grown, since then.

Why do it here and not in a 'Personal Diary', some people may wonder🤔...because I find that, every time I share posts like these, it always helps someone or the other, in some way. So why not. We all 'Learn' from one another's 'Stories and Life Experiences' anyway.❤

(Reading this old post, two years later, I really don't remember what I was 'Angry' about, when I wrote this, or who prompted me to write something like this.🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess, 'Anger' really is an emotion like that. Even more for people like me, who rarely allow those negative emotions, to get the better of them. It passes off, after a while; and soon, you don't even remember the reason, for getting irritated or losing your temper.😊

I do like the picture that I shared with this post though. I just found it on the internet. So, I don't know who took it. But how perfectly, it matched what I had written about that day.)✍️

WHEN I'M FEELING BLUE ✨️🎶

 

The musical section in my brain, makes the strangest and most unexpected 'Connections', especially when it comes to Songs. When I was thinking of a title for this post, it just reminded me of these words, from another song.

'When I'm Feeling Blue, 

All I have to do,

Is take a Look at You.'😊

I Love all things Blue - From the Blue Skies above, to the vast Blue Ocean below...And I really Love this Song.✨️❤️ But I've only listened to the Engelbert Humperdinck version before.

Last night, I heard this Al Martino version and I liked it also. So, am sharing this song today, instead of the Engelbert one.

SPANISH EYES 🎶

- Al Martino

Of course, on Jukebox Jammies, Carlton Braganza has sung it many, many times too. I found about six JJ videos of him singing this song, at different times over 4 years. Am posting one of them.

Probably on JJ, some songs just got requested, much more than others, by people who were listening to the show; or maybe, it was just because Carlton loves the song, like he says in this video.😊

(The videos are from Carlton Braganza's page and another page on YT.)

TWINKLING EYES ✨️✍️

 

Her eager eyes capture multiple pictures,

A 'Silent Observer', she has always been,

On the look out, for things others may miss,

For in every moment, there's more than can be seen.

A quality she inherited from her 'Super Mum',

From whose 'Twinkling Eyes', nothing could escape,

One look and she knew something was wrong,

Nothing you could hide, in any way, form or shape.

The images, once clicked by the lens in her eyes,

Are fodder for thought, both day and night,

They keep her wandering mind, alert and alive,

To her dull world, adding a kaleidoscope so bright.

Her eyes have taught her 'Lessons', she had to learn,

They've shown her 'True Colours', she had to see,

They've viewed 'Joy and Pain', in all its shades,

For 'Wonder' in each new day, they keep searching with glee.✨️✍️

TRUE COLOURS 🎶🌈

- Music Travel Love

BOYS AND THEIR SONGS 😊🎶

Two or three decades ago, there was a point in time, when 'Boy Bands' just seemed to be springing up, everywhere. There were so many of them, that we sometimes almost confused one with another. They did sing some great songs though, which were part of everyone's 'Very Nostalgic Growing Up Memories'.✨️❤️

Am sharing some of those songs. There are many, many more 'Boy Bands' and songs, that were extremely popular back then...But am only posting a few here.

PAINT MY LOVE 🎶

- Michael Learns To Rock (MLTR)

NO MATTER WHAT 🎶

- Boyzone (Featuring Westlife)

MY LOVE 🎶

- Westlife

THIS I PROMISE YOU 🎶

- Nsync

WORDS 🎶

- Boyzone / BeeGees

(Found this video of 'Boyzone' singing this song, together with The 'BeeGees'. It's amazing to hear two generations of artists, singing a song, that both groups are known for, together on the same stage.)😊

MOON RIVER

- Westlife

(This song is not from that Boy Band era, but I Love the Song.✨️❤️ It's one of my 'All-Time Favourite Songs'. So, I was just happy to find a Westlife version of it.)😊

(The videos are either from the Artist's pages or uploaded by various people on YT.)

MY WISH FOR YOU ✨️❤️

 

MY WISH 🎶(Song Lyrics)
- One Voice Children's Choir (Rascal Flatts)

I hope the days come easy and the moments pass slow,
And each road leads you where you want to go;

And if you're faced with a choice, and you have to choose,
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you;

And if one door opens to another door closed,
I hope you keep on walkin' 'till you find the window.

If it's cold outside,
Show the world the warmth of your Smile,

But More than anything,
More than anything...

My Wish, for You,
Is that this Life becomes
All that you want it to;
Your Dreams stay big,
Your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold;

And while you're out there, getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody Loves You,
And wants the same things too;
Yeah, This is My Wish.

I hope you never look back, but you never forget,
All the ones who Love you, in the place you left;

I hope you always forgive, and you never regret,
And you help somebody, every chance you get;

Oh, you find God's grace, in every mistake,
And always give, more than you take;

But More than anything, yeah,
More than anything...

My Wish, for You,
Is that this Life becomes,
All that you want it to.
Your Dreams stay big,
Your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold;

And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody Loves You, And wants the same things too,
Yeah, This is My Wish.

This is My Wish
(My Wish for You)
Hope you know somebody Loves You (My Wish for You)
May All Your Dreams Come True
(My Wish for You).✨️❤️

SENORITAS 😊🎶

There are a few songs that Carlton Braganza sang with different singers, at various online events, during the Lockdown. This is one of them.🎶

'FB Memories' reminded me of this video today, where Carlton tried to combine many, many clips from different shows, of the song 'Senorita' (from the film Zindagi Na Milegi Dobaara). Editing this video must have taken Carlton quite a while, I'm sure.😊

Am adding this video to the 'Jukebox Jammies' section on my blog, because I love all these three girls - Chrystal Farrell, Tanushree Dwivedi and Meghna Das. Also, just for all that effort, to edit and put this video together, this one should be remembered.👍

THE CLIMB ✨️🎶

 

I love the Cover Versions of songs that the amazing children of the 'One Voice Children's Choir' put out. This is their latest song, that they shared last night. Arranged beautifully by their Choir Director, Masa Fukuda.❤️

Originally sung by Miley Cyrus, many years ago, the song was also part of the Disney 'Hannah Montana Movie'.

I think the lyrics of the song are very uplifting, encouraging people to 'Keep the Faith' and to 'Keep Going', even when the road may be long and the climb may be steep. After all, it's always 'The Journey' that matters, more than the 'Final Destination'.✨️💕

THE CLIMB 🎶 (Song Lyrics)
- Miley Cyrus

I can almost see it
That dream I'm dreaming;
But there's a voice inside my head saying,
You'll never reach it.

Every step I'm taking,
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction;
My faith is shaking.

But I, I gotta keep trying,
Gotta keep my head held high.

There's always gonna be another mountain,
I'm always gonna wanna make it move;
Always gonna be an uphill battle,
Sometimes, I'm gonna have to lose.

Ain't about how fast I get there,
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side,
It's The Climb.

The struggles I'm facing,
The chances I'm taking,
Sometimes might knock me down,
But No, I'm not breaking.

I may not know it,
But these are the moments,
That I'm gonna remember most,
Just gotta keep going.

And I, I gotta be strong
Just keep pushing on, 'cause...

There's always gonna be another mountain,
I'm always gonna wanna make it move,
Always gonna be an uphill battle,
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose.

Ain't about how fast I get there,
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side,
It's The Climb.

Keep On Moving,
Keep Climbing,
Keep The Faith.

It's all about, it's all about The Climb,
Keep your Faith, Keep your Faith.✨️✍️

(The videos have been uploaded by different people on YT.)

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS 🤔✍️

 

Was pondering over some "Why's", that I've asked continuously every single day, probably since I was ten years old. I think I've started to ask, more and more in recent years; even though I know I'm never going to get any 'Answers'.

But this is what some random sleepless 'Questioning', (on this day two years ago) led to.

WHY?...WHY?...WHY?...🤔✍️

It's a favourite 'Question' kids love to ask,

About every little thing they don't know.

But it's the 'Answers', they hear each curious time,

That help them to Blossom, to Learn, to Grow.

Some 'Questions' get quick, instant replies,

From a Parent, a Teacher, a well-read Friend;

Some 'Answers', intrigue those Eager Minds so,

That asking some more, soon becomes a trend.

'Questions' could make one quite 'Inquisitive' too,

But that's how every Einstein and Sherlock is born.

How utterly Dreary and Uninteresting, Life would be,

To the 'Flame of Reasoning', if like a moth we weren't drawn.

Just as Instant Coffee, doesn't take long hours to brew,

The Internet, almost became a Genie to 'The Inquiring Mind'.

For just about Anything, Anywhere, Anytime,

In a moment, with a click, was so easy to now find.

But some 'Questions', will remain 'Unanswered Forever',

Even with Advanced Technology, some 'Answers' we'll never receive; 

Each Lonesome Day, each Silent Night, though we may ask,

Some "Why's" like constant companions, linger on as we Grieve.😢

(Originally posted on FB, on the 14th of July ' 2022. 

These cute pictures, I just found on the internet. They reminded me of that 'Little Girl', who started asking those 'Questions with No Answers' at the age of 10, and hasn't really stopped, to this day.)

A SERENADE TO YOU ✨️🎶

 

Was reminded of this lovely song, when I heard my Musician friends Tammy and Roy, singing this song last night, on one of their shows in Goa.

It is such a beautiful old song. I Love it. So had to find the video and share it.😊

Was interesting to discover that the Lyrics of this Song, were written by Charlie Chaplin.

THIS IS MY SONG (1967) 🎶 (Song Lyrics)
- Petula Clark

Why is my heart so light?
Why are the stars so bright?
Why is the sky so blue,
Since the hour I met You?

Flowers are Smiling bright
Smiling for our delight
Smiling so tenderly
For the world, You and Me.

I know why the world is Smiling
Smiling so tenderly;
It hears the same old Story
Through all Eternity.

Love, this is my Song
Here is a Song, a serenade to You;
The world cannot be wrong
If in this world, there is You.

I care not what the world may say
Without your Love, there is no day;
So Love, this is my Song
Here is a Song, a serenade to You.✨️❤️

(The video and pictures were uploaded by different people on YT.)