THREE'S A CROWD ✍️

 

Have you ever been made to feel like an unnecessary and unwanted 'third wheel' in a conversation, a friendship, your workplace, in a group or even in a family? I guess, it's not uncommon for people to sometimes treat friends and loved ones, like they're 'excess baggage' or like they shouldn't have been there at all, in the first place. 

Nothing hurts more, than being 'sidelined and left out' by people that you really care about. It's a feeling of 'abandonment' like no other, when friends or colleagues, that you consider to be family, or maybe your real family too, behave like you don't even exist anymore.

If it is done on purpose, it is extremely 'heartless'; irrespective of what the 'reasons' for their actions may have been. But even if one is oblivious to how they've treated another, and they've done it 'unknowingly', they cannot be forgiven easily, for making another person feel like they 'don't even belong'.

I guess, for a lot of people it's fairly easy to make others feel like 'Three's a Crowd'. But over time, one of the many lessons that life has taught me, is that people only truly 'Understand', when they go through similar 'Life Experiences' themselves. Till then, they don't even realise or think about the fact, that their words or lack of it, their actions and behaviour, could really affect someone else adversely or cause deep anguish and pain.

But that's how Life is. We meet all kinds of people everyday; and through every interaction, we learn something. Not everyone is happy to have us around; but the ones who know how 'Special' we are, are the people that are the 'Real Blessings' in our lives.✨️✍️