DO WE REALLY KNOW?🤔✍️

OF LOVE AND LOSS ✨️❤️

That faraway look in those tear-filled eyes,
A thousand crazy questions whirling around,
A million confused thoughts in that restless mind,
Everyone's talking; but she can't hear a sound.

I want to say, 'How well I know this pain!'
And I wish, her anguish I could share;
Instead, I quietly sit close by, holding her hand,
Just so she knows, that 'I'm There'.

Words almost seem like 'noise' sometimes,
A meaningless jumble, a clanging cymbal, a resounding gong;
Pointless, Unnecessary - They bring absolutely no comfort,
Even from a well-meaning, concerned, friendly throng.

No one really knows that feeling of loss,
Even if you've been there yourself, a few times before;
Every painful experience is different, Each one's story, 'Their Own',
On this, our inevitable solitary journey, towards heaven's door.✨️✍️

Two of my teacher friends from DB, lost their husbands over the last two weeks; and one of them (whose life partner bid adieu to this world, only a couple of days ago) used to sit right next to me in the staffroom, for many, many years...When you've worked together for two long decades, you get to know the families of your colleagues, a little bit as well; a few, more than others. You meet them at school events, family functions and occasions; you keep hearing about everyday household stories and experiences, in free periods and at recess time in school; and if you happen to live in the same vicinity, you even bump into them at random places like the market or the bank, or they sometimes give you a lift, on your way to school as well. In the process, they become a tiny part of your world too.😔

So, when they just suddenly and unexpectedly vanish one day, (and at a very young age too), it is as much of a shock to you, as it is to your friend and her family. You're left just as lost and speechless, as everyone else. You actually know all those feelings, that she is going through, and you almost re-live them, all over again...The million questions, the innumerable words left unspoken, the countless things left incomplete and half-done, the sense of being completely overwhelmed, by the enormity of everything that is still to be done, in this (who knows how long) uncertain life, that lies ahead.

...But more than anything, it just breaks your already wounded and bruised heart, one more time.😪                  

ONE MORE DAY 🎶

- Diamond Rio (Boyce Avenue)

DO YOU SEE WHAT I SEE?🤔

THE PERSONA VS THE PERSON ✍️

Have been thinking about why 'celebrity' deaths in another part of the world, especially untimely and unexpected ones, make people everywhere, feel just a little sad.😪 We've never met or seen them in person; and they don't even know that we exist, in some part of the universe, oceans apart from where they are.

...and yet, there is a sense of loss in our hearts, when we hear that they've moved on from this life. Just the thought that we will never watch them on screen again, fills us with a very strange and difficult to explain 'emptiness'.😔

Each time any actor, singer or performer that we've watched or heard a lot on TV, in movies or on stage, or whose songs we've listened to often, passes away, we feel that slight sadness. That feeling lingers on for a while too, and it's sometimes difficult to understand 'why'.🤔

I think it affects us a little more, if we've been especially fond of a particular artist. I know I felt like that, when I heard that the Patch Adams/ Mrs.Doubtfire actor - Robin Williams, had died, some years ago; and I felt it again, when I heard about Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry), a couple of days ago.

It's not that I was a huge fan of either of them, and I didn't really follow their careers or the things they did, all the time; but there was something about some of their performances, or the characters they played on screen, that endeared them to me. Maybe, I just liked them, because they made me Laugh.😊

These were two people however, who 'In Reality' definitely were the perfect representation, of those Charlie Chaplin lyrics, from the 'happiest sad song' or the 'saddest happy song', that I love...

'Smile though your heart is aching,
Smile even though it's breaking;
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by,
If you just Smile.'🎶😪

They truly made the whole world Smile and Laugh all the time; even when their own lives were full of long and relentless personal struggles of their own. It makes us all ponder on the difference between the 'On Screen Stage Personas', that people who are always in the limelight, create for the whole world to see...Completely the opposite and different, from what lies behind those smiles; those 'Real Life Feelings and Experiences' that they actually struggle and battle with, every single day.🎭

But hiding behind masks, creating alternate versions of reality, almost living in a parallel universe, somehow seems to be something, that every single person does constantly; and from long before the pandemic forced us to wear masks, for a few years.😷 

Whether a 'celebrity' or just another 'ordinary human being', I think in some ways, we're all a little like that, in our own lives too, aren't we?🤔

I WONDER WHY...

PERHAPS LOVE ✨️❤️

 

Lyrics like these make songs Special.😊

I like the many 'comparisons' used by the Songwriter, to describe Love.💞

PERHAPS LOVE (Song Lyrics) 🎶

- John Denver and Placido Domingo

Perhaps Love is like a resting place
A shelter from the storm
It exists to give you comfort
It is there to keep you warm;
And in those times of trouble
When you are most alone
The memory of Love will bring you home.❤️

Perhaps Love is like a window
Perhaps an open door
It invites you to come closer
It wants to show you more;
And even if you lose yourself
And don't know what to do
The memory of Love will see you through.✨️

Oh, Love to some is like a cloud
To some as strong as steel
For some a way of living
For some a way to feel;

And some say Love is holding on
And some say letting go
And some say Love is everything
And some say they don't know.🤔

Perhaps Love is like the ocean
Full of conflict, full of pain
Like a fire when it's cold outside
Or thunder when it rains;
If I should live forever
And all my dreams come true
My memories of Love will be of you.✍️🎶

I first discovered this beautiful song, when Carlton Braganza sang it on his online show 'Jukebox Jammies' some years ago. I thought the lyrics were exceptionally meaningful and beautiful; and I've loved the song ever since that first time, when I heard it.❤️

This is from a more recent show, earlier this year. Carlton singing that same song as Placido, in a cover duet version with John Denver.😊

DARE TO DREAM ✨️❤️

Many years ago, we had picked the Theme 'Dare to Dream' for our Annual Day at DB; because we wanted our students to see, how 'Every Dreamer is an Inspiration and a Role-Model'.✨️

As I worked on writing that Script, I remember how I spent many weeks reading about the most 'Inspirational Dreamers' around the world, from various fields;😊 together with also looking for a whole bunch of appropriate 'Songs written about Dreamers', to match the script.🎶💃

This was a song that I had picked that year. It was also one of the songs, sung at the Opening Ceremony of the 2000 Sydney Olympics, by John Farnham and Olivia Newton-John.❤️

DARE TO DREAM (Song Lyrics) ✍️🎶

- John Farnham and Olivia Newton-John

I am my own Believer
In my Heart the Reason
I will follow the Light from within;
I'm not afraid of weakness
I'm gonna taste the sweetness
Of the power not to give in.
Oh I will see it through
I Believe, this is my Moment of Truth.

Dare to Dream
Dare to Fly
Dare to be the ever Chosen One to touch the sky
Dare to Reach
Dare to Rise
Find the Strength to set my spirit free
Dare to Dream.🌟

I will Go the Distance
Embrace resistance
I will lay my soul on the line;
When the wait is over
And the hunger has spoken
If I give my all, I will shine.
Oh I will see it through
I Believe, this is my Moment of Truth.

Dare to Dream
Dare to Fly
Dare to be the ever Chosen One to touch the sky
Dare to Reach
Dare to Rise
Find the Strength to set my spirit free
Dare to Dream.🌟

And my Heart will Shine like the Sun
A million voices Together as One
I Believe, I Believe, I Believe, I Believe.💞

Dare to Dream
Dare to Fly
Dare to be the ever Chosen One to touch the sky
Dare to Reach
Dare to Rise
Find the Strength to set my spirit free.

Dare to Dream
Dare to Fly
Dare to be the ever Chosen One to touch the sky
Dare to Reach
Dare to Rise
Find the Strength to set my spirit free
Find the Strength to do what I Believe

Dare To Dream

Dare To Dream✨️❤️

A26 at RAY' 2022 in IC 🎶💕

So, I went to the St.Francis Grounds a little early last evening, because I wanted to meet Chrystal Farrell (another awesome friend that I made, because of Carlton Braganza and Jukebox Jammies) before the show. I ended up meeting and posing for an unexpected pic with the whole Band.😊 That didn't even happen, when I went to listen to A26 at Cohiba in Goa; and I felt like some celebrity myself, as I stood there for a pic, with all these awesome musicians together.🙈 Thanks Chrystal!🤗❤️

I don't even need to say this, but just about everybody loved the show.This time, I decided to enjoy the show from right in front of the stage, instead of watching from the back. The energy and enthusiasm there, was quite something.😊 

Our parishioners, friends and lots of people from elsewhere too, who love A26, all dancing the night away, jumping, cheering and singing along. I usually stay away from being 'in the heart of the action' like that, and always prefer to watch from the sidelines...But I went closer to the stage last night, only because I wanted some nice clear videos.

After reading this post, someone who knows me well, asked me with a very confused expression, 'So, were you dancing, when you were so close to the stage?'😂😂😂 

A26 is simply amazing and definitely one of 'India's Finest Bands' today. You just have to look at their social media pages, to know how much and how often they're travelling, all over the place. Part of the 'Frequent Flyers Club', like someone calls them.😊 But, the fact that they travel so much and constantly have shows all over, proves how much in demand they are everywhere...and that can only be, because they are so good.❤️

In conversations with musically inclined friends from IC, after the show, there was one common feeling. We were just so 'Happy' to have had a 4-day event like this in IC.😊 Has never happened before and it really made us 'feel good'. 

To see how so many talented musicians were in the audience last night (few, not even from IC), made us feel 'Proud', that our Parish hosted something like this. 

So, once again to the organisers of 'Ray - Asha ki Kiran, 2022'; a big 'Thumbs-Up' for a job really well done. It truly was a 'Fabulous' event, in every respect.👏👏👏

This has also been a really eventful week for me. Beginning with the two days of the International Jazz Festival at the NCPA, then Darren and Niloufer's 'That Christmas Spirit and more' at St.Andrew's, followed by these two days that I attended at 'Ray' here in IC, hearing Remo and A26 'Live'.

I'm sure the 'Chief Musician', who writes the music score of all our lives, was in the mood to fill my life, with lots of music this week😊🎶💕

...and actually, my heart still longed to be at a couple of other shows too; because there were so many events happening this week. If only, I could have been, in more than one place at once.😊

...but another thought that comes to mind is that, if I was still in school, I would have never been able to make the time to attend so many concerts in one week, with all the endless school work. So, I must be 'Grateful' for the musical experiences I did have, and the many countless friends I met this week.

...and yes, 'EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.'✨️❤️

(This is a post I shared on FB a year ago, in December' 2022.)

MAKING MUSIC THE 'A26' WAY 🎶💕

Was introduced to A26, this amazing Band from Goa, on Carlton Braganza's online music show 'Jukebox Jammies', during the lockdown. Loved the voices of both Lester Rodrigues and Chrystal Farrell.🤗❤ I think they are both fantastic.

Since then, over the last three years, I have followed them and listened to many of their songs online; and have discovered how talented every single member of the band is. Grayston Vaz, Marwino Da Costa, Ignatius Rodrigues, Alfin Fernandes, Joe Pereira - Fabulous musicians, who all sing too, play multiple instruments; and most of all, they just enjoy the music. You can see that in every song they sing.🙂🎶💕

If you follow them online, you'll realise how packed and hectic their schedule is sometimes, because they travel all over, singing and performing; but you'll still always see them smiling and enjoying themselves, when they're on stage. That enjoyment is infectious, and the audience catches it instantly too.😃

So, when I was in Goa for a few days in May 2022, I made sure I went and listened to them 'Live'; since they're at 'Cohiba' every Wednesday night. They almost didn't perform there, in the week I was in Goa, because of another event; but thankfully, their plans changed at the last minute, and the show that day, didn't get cancelled. Whenever you are in Goa, you must make sure you go, and experience a 'Live' A26 performance.🙂

They really are such a great band; and while their online videos are awesome, listening to them 'Live', makes you feel proud that we have a band as good as that in India, and a little more proud that it's a band from Goa.❤

(This was a post, that I had shared on FB, in July 2022)

YOU'RE THE INSPIRATION ✨️🎶 (Song Lyrics)

- Chicago

You know our love was meant to be
The kind of love that lasts forever;
And I want you here with me
From tonight until the end of time.

You should know, 

Everywhere I go;

Always on my mind, 

in my heart,

In my soul, baby.

You're the meaning in my life
You're the Inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You're the Inspiration✨️
Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin'
No one needs you more than I Need You.❤️

And I know, yes I know that it's plain to see
So in love when we're together;
Now I know that I need you here with me
From tonight until the end of time.

You should know, 

Everywhere I go;

Always on my mind, 

In my heart,

In my soul.

You're the meaning in my life
You're the Inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You're the Inspiration✨️
Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin'
No one needs you more than I Need You.❤️

Wanna have you near me
I wanna have you hear me sayin'
No one needs you more than I need you.

You're the meaning in my life
You're the Inspiration
You bring feeling to my life
You're the Inspiration

When you love somebody 'til the end of time
When you love somebody
Always on my mind
No one needs you more than I

When you love somebody 'til the end of time
When you love somebody
Always on my mind
I Need You.✨️❤️

EXTRA-ORDINARILY 'YOU' 🌟💕

Sometimes, we may think we haven't really done that much, to deserve praise and accolades... 

What we may not realise, is that what we thought was just Ordinary to us, was actually 'Extra-Ordinary' to someone else; because to those people, a lot of 'little bits of nonsense' actually made 'a whole bunch of sense'.😊💕

I guess, we can all try to fill the world with the warmth, brightness and love that a ray of sunshine brings, in little ways everyday. That 'one ray' that creeps into a dark corner, even through a little crevice, a tiny slit somewhere or even through a locked door, could 'make the biggest difference' to another person's life, without us even realising it.✨️

BE THAT RAY ❤️

To know just how much brightness,
You bring to each new day;
Look through those tear-laden eyes,
Whose pain you laugh away.

To know just how much sunshine,
You bring to every dark room;
Look at that storm-beaten life,
Filled with cheer, instead of gloom.

To know just how much warmth,
You bring to each chilly night;
Look at the cloud-filled sky,
Where rainbows, are now in sight.

To know just how much light,
You bring to every lonely heart;
Look at those frown-clad faces,
Smiling more, with the 'Will to Restart'.😊

(From a post I had shared on FB, exactly a year ago, on this day in October'22.)

WISH YOU JOY IN THE YEAR AHEAD 😊🎶

There is no better way to bring in a New Year, than by listening to some beautiful songs. Children always know how to share a smile, and I found this wonderful song, in which some little children are sharing a lot of joy, through their melodious New Year song.💕

The second song is also a lovely prayer, that the world may be a better place in the New Year. 

Happy Listening!😊🎶

LIVE IN THE MOMENT, ONE DAY AT A TIME ✨️🌈

Sometimes, the unexpected turns that life takes are so difficult to comprehend and understand. They come out of nowhere just when you think that everything is going really smoothly; and they just hit you so straight in the face, that you don't even have the time to duck.

Close on the heels of one tragedy, the first major illness, made its way into our lives, about 9 years ago. After two surgeries and a prolonged treatment, we thought that it was over and done with. We went on with our lives as usual; and almost forgot about what had happened, as time went by, because we had got busy with everything we were doing everyday.

And then, like a thief in the night, lurking in the shadows, the sickness re-surfaced once again. This time, with a vengeance, and in a part of the body where most treatments, however good and intensive, would most certainly fail.

Still, we went through the grind of another major surgery, followed by numerous sessions of the dreaded chemos. Supplemented the treatment, with the right food and nutrition. Took every precaution under the sun, to avoid infection. Tried to stay exceptionally positive, even through times, when we knew things were steadily headed downhill...and most of all, we constantly lived in hope, that maybe, things might just get better; and possibly, there could be a tiny glimmer of light, at the end of a long and endless dark tunnel, that lasted almost one and a half years.😔

But despite every effort and ceaseless prayers from family, friends and loved ones everywhere; the body just kept growing steadily weaker and weaker. The cells were spreading like wild-fire, and gradually infesting the important organs, one after another, irrespective of the treatment. It was as if the treatment, just hadn't made the slightest dent on the sickness at all; despite being quite intensive.😢

The 'body weight' kept dwindling at a rapid pace. Extensive research (which I eventually became a master at doing, because there really is so much to learn and know about, in the field of medicine and treatment), showed that it is precisely this factor, of rapid and continuous weight loss, which actually takes its toll on the patient, and not just the Cancer itself. So, we tried our best to keep the weight loss at bay too; but despite everything we did, eventually the body gave up.🤷🏻‍♀️

The battle to outsmart this challenging disease, raged on for almost a year and a half. Nothing worked. 

I remember being utterly devastated nine years ago, when I first heard the news that my mother had developed Breast Cancer. To hear that she had developed Pancreatic Cancer, a little over seven years later, just when we thought all was well, was so difficult to handle, especially since there are very few encouraging stories, that you hear about Pancreatic Cancer survivors. The struggle to beat the sickness was long and hard; and finally, even though we did so much, we could do absolutely nothing to overcome it.😔

Words would not be able to describe the ordeal, both of us went through together; and the pain she experienced, constantly every single day, for months at a stretch, was too unbearable to even see.😢 

The sickness literally squeezed out so much life, energy, enthusiasm and everything else, from both of us. God gave us the strength to stay positive for a large part of this journey; but there were many moments, when it was a real challenge, to keep our spirits up.

So why am I sharing, this sad and painful experience. Simply because through everything that we went through and experienced, I learned so much. 

What did this experience teach me?🤔

I think the most important lesson I have learned, is to just 'Live in the Moment'. No one knows what tomorrow holds in store; and it is absolutely pointless, to worry about the future. Just live life 'One Day At A Time', and cherish all the special people you care about, while they are still here; because one day, they suddenly won't be around anymore, and no matter how much you wish you could talk to them again, you won't be able to.💕

'Smile' a little more everyday.😊

'Be Grateful' for the memories and the good times.✨️ 

Just be 'Thankful' for everything and everyone who adds some joy to your life.🙏

'Share a Laugh'.😂 

Cherish every experience. Life is beautiful. Just live life, being a good human being at every step of the way.

Above everything else, have a strong Faith in the Creator. Even though, there may be times, when things may not seem to be going our way in life, He knows what's best for us; and He will always be there, to accompany us at every step of the way, no matter how difficult the journey may be. Always believe that.🤍

I cannot end this post, without the biggest word of Gratitude, to the innumerable number of doctors, nurses, nutritionists and health care professionals, that we interacted with, over the last nine years. They truly are the 'Hands of God' in this world.🤗❤️

I often wonder, how they cope with the stress and strain of the work they do. Their efforts, so often go unnoticed. They may not always be able to work miracles, but they never stop trying to make a difference; and that is so commendable. 

So grateful to have met every single one of them. I may never see them again; but I will always be Thankful, for their role in my journey through life.✨️🌈

YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND IN ME ✨️❤️

     

I often wonder about how so many of my Friendships first began. It's fascinating to think about how two people, whose paths never crossed at all for years, suddenly met one day; and then as time passed by, he or she became a Dear Friend. 

Some may call it a chance encounter; but I think that every person who I call My Friend, was meant to be an important part of my life.✨️

I'm happy God chose to bring each one of my Friends into my life, at different stages of time, over the years. With each Friend, I have special memories, and lasting bonds of Love and Friendship. 

Time and Distance keeps some far away; but the Love we share, will forever stay. Grateful for every 'Special Gift' in Life, that I am blessed to call my 'Friends'.😊  

 

(The adorable Claire Crosby with her Dad, singing 'You've got a Friend in Me', on The Ellen Show.)❤️

BUTTERFLY 🦋

I had the sweetest experience one bright and sunny day, in late September last year. 

A little yellow butterfly,  started flying around me for a few moments; and then quietly came and settled on my green outfit a couple of times, before flying off, in its quest to find another pretty flower.🦋🌻

This joyful moment lasted for less than a few minutes but it made me and a few other children around me smile for those few moments. The joy that those brief moments brought, has lasted right through the day; and it also made me think of this really old song, that I had heard many years ago. 

I still have that old audio cassette by 'Nicole' called 'A Little Peace', which has this song called 'Butterfly' on it. As a child, I loved listening to that cassette, over and over again. It used to be one of my favourites, back then. 🎶  

Was happy to find this song online. Just passing the joy along. Keep smiling everyone!😊

A LITTLE PEACE 🤍💕

   

Moments of trials and difficulties are inevitable in life. They crop up unexpectedly and without a warning; but through every trial in life, there is always a 'glimmer of hope', that things will get better. There is always a new sunrise after every dark night, a bright ray of sunshine after every storm has passed; and a long awaited light at the end of every tunnel.✨️

We just have to believe that a little love and a small prayer, can make a 'big difference'. Together with this, a tiny bit of patience and a little understanding, is all we need to bring about a change.😊

Here's a beautiful song called 'A Little Peace' by Nicole, that has always been one of my favourites, ever since I was in school. I'm glad someone has uploaded this album on YT. It used to be a favourite of mine, when I was growing up. 💕

JUST THOUGHTS THAT CROSS MY MIND ✍️

Even though I enjoy writing, I just haven't been able to find the time to sit and put down my thoughts. However, I still try to post a few of my thoughts on social media, from time to time. So, I've just pulled out some of those random posts from FB, and shared them here.
 
3rd October,2016 ✍️

Each of us is called to be an instrument of love and peace in this world. 

We only have one life to live, so much to give and so much to share. 

There is love to be found, let's look around...There's happiness at every bend and turn. 

Share a smile...Spread the joy.😊😊😊

(Lyrics from the song 'People over the world').🎶

20th October,2016 ✍️

Life is an Adventure...So many memories, friendships and unforgettable moments, at every step of the way, along this journey. I thank God for all the smiles, the special friendships, the precious memories.✨️

26th October,2016 ✍️

I can write a book on all the beautiful memories, spent with my boys on school trips. There have been so many over the years; but I have vivid memories of every single one. Right now, all those memories are floating around in my head; but maybe some day, they will find their way into a book.

Without a doubt, a lot of my students and friends will be important characters, in those happy stories...

A very exciting thought!

Just another thing to add to my long-term 'To-do' list.😊

10th November,2016 ✍️

Happiness comes from just celebrating and re-living, the joyous moments of life, whenever you feel like. 

Life is beautiful, when 'Happy Memories' are your 'Travel Companions' everyday.✨️

4th December,2016 ✍️

Sometimes, there are so many things we want to say...

So many feelings we wish we could express...

A number of thoughts we would like to share...

But then, we choose not to say anything instead. We decide not to express, what we really feel. We refrain from sharing what we really wish we could...

There are times when choosing not to speak out, could be the reason, for allowing a lot of things to go wrong; but sometimes, silence really does speak louder than words.🤷🏻‍♀️

10th December,2016 ✍️

God has blessed all of us human beings, with the beautiful gift of a SMILE.😊

A simple yet precious gift, that enables us to express and communicate our joy.

Let's try and use this wonderful gift more often. Share a smile wherever you are. It won't take long for the world around us, to become a happier place. 

Keep smiling everyone!😊😊😊

19th February,2017 ✍️

There's so much to be thankful for, 

In our lives everyday.
There's so much to smile about, 

And with grateful hearts to pray.🙏

Life is full of countless blessings, 

Of which all the ups and downs are a part.
And each person we encounter in life, 

Leaves an imprint of themselves, on our heart.❤️

Grateful for every memorable moment 

And for every person, who makes life worthwhile.
Thankful for every special friend, near and far, Just thinking of them makes me smile.😊

There's no real reason, 

No occasion, no special day.
But just because I felt like it, 

I'm sharing some love in my own way.💕

23rd February, 2017 ✍️

Our stories in life are shaped by our experiences. 

They may make us, break us, teach us or inspire us.

It all depends on how we respond to every situation. 

There are countless twists and turns in the tale of life; and what makes it so exciting, is that we never really know, what the next page has in store.🤔

ECHOES FROM THE HEART ✨️❤️

There are days when she just wants to sit down and weep,
When her tears fall as quick as the rain,
When she's upset and sad, and hurt beyond words,
When her heart just cries out in pain.😢

There are moments when she feels so lost and alone,
When she longs for a shoulder to cry on;
When she wishes she had someone to share things with,
When she longs for the night to turn to dawn.😔

The world only sees the warmth and the happy smiles,
And hears the cheerful chatter, the joyous laugh.
Friends often think her life is just a breeze,
And that her cares can be measured in half.🙄

People are always mistaken, that someone else's life,
Is much better, than what they go through every day.
They compare, contrast and finally conclude
That someone else is better off, in every little way.🤔

But the reality though, is a bitter pill,
One that's hard to swallow and understand;
Cause while the world is surrounded by those they love,
She often ends up longing, for that one elusive hand.✨️

That one hand to hold, when she's all alone,
That one hand that can reach out and say, "I'm there."
That one pair of hands to extend a warm hug,
That one hand that will always say, "I care."🤗

Her life is filled with blessings aplenty,
With countless happy moments and precious memories galore.
She has met people, who've left an indelible mark,
And friends, as many as the shells on a shore.💕

But amidst all the smiles and the joyful cheer,
There is always a lingering sense of loss.
The wishing and hoping, the yearning and praying,
For the grace and courage to bear every cross.🙏

She sometimes wishes, she could take her loved ones home,
And forever with her, keep them near and close;
But wishes and dreams don't always come true
That's a reality, that everyone knows.🤷🏻‍♀️

So she keeps on Smiling her way through life,
And teaches everyone she meets, to do the same.
While the sadness, the tears and the lonely heart remains,
Hidden behind 'The Perfect Smile', so synonymous with her name. 😊✍️

PASSING THOUGHTS ✍️

June 10, 2016 ✍️

The sun peeps out from behind the rain clouds...

The cuckoo is joyfully singing her song...

A scorching city anxiously awaits those soothing droplets from the skies...

A bright new morning with all its possibilities awaits us...

June 19, 2016 ✍️

A wet day....

A drop in the temperature...

A nice cool breeze...

Sounds heavenly, after the really hot summer and the scorching heat, doesn't it?

But you know what, our human nature will soon lead us to start complaining, about the muck and the puddles, the filth and the dirt.

What if we could react a little differently this year?🤔

If someone passing by in a car, splashes muddy water all over our clean clothes, we may be tempted to say a few unkind words.

Instead, what if we could just look up to heaven, smile and say, "Thank you Lord for the rain. Please let it keep coming."😊☔️

June 22, 2016 ✍️

The sun and shade of life, is something that is part and parcel of our very existence. 

Moments of joy and sorrow, keep playing hide and seek, right through our lives. They are so deeply woven into the fibre of our lives, that they just slip in and out, before we've even realised.

It's easy to smile through the happy times; but the real test, is learning how to 'Keep Smiling', even through the tears.

I pray that more people, will learn how to live each day with a smile; even at times, when the clouds of sadness hide the sunshine in their lives for a while.😊💕

June 25, 2016 ✍️

Just watching the precious drops of rain fall from the skies...

The green trees in my compound, seem even more green and beautiful...

The droplets of rain, continue to hang on to the grills in my window; and each one, almost resembles a little colourless pearl.

The cycle of nature is such a wonderful thing. I can sit and just watch the rain for hours.✨️☔️

June 28, 2016 ✍️

Life is a series of new encounters, new friendships, new beginnings.

I often wonder about, how friendships grow and change, with the passing years. As the years go by, we grow apart from some, and we grow closer to others.

Time and distance, sometimes keeps us away from friends, who were closest to our hearts, at some point in our lives; but somehow, new friends always step in, to fill up the void that their absence creates.❤️

Just the thought, that the constant changes in life, may separate us from the friends we love, is something that we find hard to accept; but I guess, some friendships do last forever. 

No matter how far from one another, life takes us, the bond of love we share, remains strong and lasting...

Grateful for every Friend, who has ever been a part of my life. Always miss the ones who are far away. ✨️🤗

LIFE IS MEANT TO BE COLOURFUL ✨️🌈

 

Somewhere over the rainbow, 

Skies are blue,

And the dreams that I ‘dare to dream’

Really do come true.🌈

In our Annual Day School Musical  this year, the audience encountered Joseph, a young boy who dreamed. The unexpected twists and turns in his life, eventually led him to a place and position, where all his 'Dreams', became a reality. 

As a young child, his father handed him a multi-coloured coat. Little did he know, that just as his father had singled him out, from among his brothers; God too had singled him out, to be an instrument, to bring about a change in the attitude of his brothers, and to help his own people, in their time of need.

Similarly, when God created us, and decided that it was time for us, to be born in this world; He presented each of us with our own multi-coloured coat. 

We were blessed with innumerable gifts and talents. Endowed with these wonderful gifts, each of us is 'A Rainbow of Possibilities'. Every single one of us can 'Dare to Dream', and then work towards fulfilling those dreams, during the course of our lives.✨️

It is up to us to choose, whether we would like to soar into the blue skies like the birds, and fly to that rainbow; or whether, we would just like to let those gifts, lie dormant within us.

Colours make the world beautiful.🧡🩵🩷💛💙

Have you ever noticed the changing hues of the sky, at the break of dawn and at sunset? 

Have you ever cared to observe the many shades of green on the leaves of a single tree?

Have you paused to look at a colourful butterfly, as it flies over a garden of brightly coloured flowers?🌻🦋

The world around us is God’s canvas. As the Master painter, He fills every day with beautiful colours. 'You and I are his Masterpiece'. Each of us is called to continue in His mission, of filling the world with the ‘Colours of Life’, through the way we live.

So let’s all do our part, by always sharing a Smile, with everyone we meet...

Let’s whistle a happy tune at all times. It might just cheer someone up, when they’re feeling low...

Let’s constantly have a song in our hearts, like a melodious bird in the trees...

And let us continue to spread Joy to those around us, like the fragrance of flowers in a garden...

Life was meant to be colourful. 

Let’s try to be the ones who fill the world with colour. 💕✍️

HARMONY AND PEACE - THE EARTH AND ME 💙💚

In her poem 'Meadow Music', Garnett Ann Schultz describes the musical harmony of nature, in these words.

     I hear the meadow singing

     It finds the world complete,

     Across the valley drifts the mist

     Into the heavens sweet,

     Where green leaves meet the blue of sky,

     The mountainside so fair,

     I hear frogs piping in the marshes

     Upon the summer air.

     I held the meadow music

     So closely to my heart,

     The golden sunlight lit the world

     Such beauty to impart.

     All outdoor life about me,

     The bird notes - joyful sound,

     The meadow shared her music

     With God's world all around.💙💚

Mother Nature has a beautiful way of working and living in harmony. Every element and aspect of nature blends harmoniously and beautifully with one another, to create a wonderful melody and rhythm of life.
 
We human beings are also elements and creatures that inhabit this beautiful earth. However, are we always contributing to the harmony of the earth, by our melodic co-existance, with all the creatures that are co-travellers with us, on our journey of life; or are we the discordant notes in that melody, that distort the harmonious and melodious flow of life, in the world around us?🤔

I think sometimes, it's nice if we take a minute, to ponder on whether, we are the ones who build bridges between people; or whether we are those individuals, who cause discord and distrust among people. 

Am I a person who spreads the light of peace and harmony, in my own little space on this planet; or am I the reason for the constant upheaval in my family, friend circle, building, neighbourhood, school or community? 

Am I a bright ray of sunshine, that can brighten up any room, just by being in it; or am I that one discordant note, in a melodious choir, that can ruin the most exquisite musical masterpiece, because I choose to be, out of sync with the harmony.

Everyone prefers peace over war; but peace can be interpreted in so many different ways. Apart from having peace between nations and countries, the world would be a much better place, if every person chose to be peaceful, in their own little corner.🕊

Being a person who chooses to be peaceful, and a 'bridge-builder' at all times, and in all situations, is a choice I make. 

Being a person, who chooses to add to the harmonious melody of the Earth, is a personal choice. 

To be 'a person of peace', who chooses to peacefully co-exist, with every person that crosses my path in life, is my choice.

To be a person who stays away from fights, arguments and from using words and language, that could hurt another person, is my choice.

I think, that if every person, just trains himself or herself, to think peaceful thoughts, works hard at behaving in peaceful ways; and if every person, constantly and consciously, tries to add to the harmonious music in the meadow of life, this world that we live in, would be even more beautiful than it already is. ✨️❤️

THE SALESIAN INFLUENCE IN MY LIFE 😊

I studied in an 'all girls school' as a child; but I remember that many of my friends, in my Sunday School classes, used to be 'Bosco Boys'. Interacting with them back then, as a youngster, I probably didn't know, that I would one day grow up to be a Teacher, in the very school, that so many of my friends used to study in. I think, I was always attracted to Don Bosco School, because of my interaction with them.😊

Besides that interaction, I also remember a few of my friends going for Summer Clubs to Don Bosco, during the holidays; and I used to love hearing about, all the fun activities they had there, year after year. Of course, I didn't really imagine then, that one day, I would be seeing those activities happening right before my eyes, year after year.

I also remember interacting with, a couple of young Salesian brothers many years ago, who are Priests now. Their families lived in our Parish, and they were my Teachers, at the 'Vacation Bible Joy' classes held in our Church, while they were on their holidays from the Seminary. 

Over the years, these 'Brothers', grew from being my teachers to being my friends; and I think, that interaction was probably one of my strongest connections with the Salesians, before I actually joined a Don Bosco school.✨️

200 years after Don Bosco's birth, in the year that we celebrate the Bi-Centenary of his birth, and eleven years after I have been a part of the Salesian family, I have also begun to discover the true joy that Don Bosco brought, to the lives of so many young boys, who just needed someone to show them, that they were 'Loved'.💕

I have recently begun to experience the heartfelt joy, that working in a Salesian Boy's Home brings, through the eyes of a friend, who has the privilege of interacting with a very talented bunch of children, in one of our Boarding schools. 

Unfortunately, our school does not have a Boarding section, any longer. So, every time I hear about the work, done in other Boarding schools, I really feel like I have missed out, on a true original 'Don Bosco experience'.

However,I'm glad that the work that Don Bosco began, so many years ago, is still working 'miracles', in so many lives; and somehow indirectly, I am also a part of those 'wonderful miracles', that happen everyday.❤️

I have just embarked on, the twelfth year of my journey as a Teacher, in a Salesian School. I feel so blessed everyday, to have been Chosen to be a part of this wonderful Salesian family, in the form of an Educator, who tries to walk in the footsteps of Don Bosco and emulate him, as much as I can, and in as many ways as is possible. 

I thank God for my extended Salesian family, all over India, and the world over; and I pray that each child that is touched in the 'Don Bosco Way', may grow up to make this world, a bright and beautiful place, in their own little ways, wherever they are. 

What an Impact you have made on so many lives dear St. John Bosco! I am blessed to be one of those special ones as well, whose lives have been touched by You.🙏✍️

LIFE IS A JOURNEY AND I'M ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT.

    

"So where are you going for the holidays this year?" That has been the question, that I've been asked innumerable times, over the past few weeks.🤔 

The month of May is generally associated with summer holidays, family trips, outings with friends, picnics, etc. I remember spending long holidays in Goa as a child, year after year, during this time.

Some of my 'fondest memories', are of the times I've spent in Goa, with my grandparents and extended family. I remember so many little things, from back then. Playing around in my grandfather's huge house, enjoying the sweet fruits-fresh from the trees, collecting the dried leaves, sitting by the river and watching the barges pass by, going across the river in the ferry boat, dipping my feet in the pond and walking through the fields...

There are so many countless things that I can remember. They are the moments that made holidays during my childhood days memorable. Those long holidays in Goa are among my most cherished childhood memories.✨️❤️

Once my grandparents passed away though, my trips to Goa, were not as frequent as they were before. However, my work began to present me with wonderful opportunities, to travel and discover different places. 

It has always been my wish, to visit as many parts of India as I can, to discover the beauty and variety that exists, in our wonderful nation. 

Over the past decade, I have been extremely fortunate, to fulfill this desire. I have been blessed with so many opportunities, to travel with my boys at school, and to discover India with them. Each and every one of those trips has been a 'learning experience'. 

As I look through the photographs, from the many trips I've been on, the wonderful memories are refreshed. I can remember so many moments, jokes, funny situations, memorable incidents, the beauty of the places themselves, the journey by train, the long bus rides, games, formation of teams, camp-fires and so much more. 

I miss all my ex-students, who used to accompany us on those trips regularly. Although they've passed out of school and moved on in life, the memories of the good times, spent on school trips with them, continue to live on in my heart. I guess those memories will stay with me forever.😊

    

Unfortunately, I do not have any holiday planned for these vacations; and somehow, there seems to be a vacuum. It seems like something is missing. Even though, most of my school trips do not happen during these holidays, it still feels like something is missing.😔

And so, I've been looking through old albums of previous holidays, and re-living the moments over the past week. Every single photograph, has a memory attached to it. So many pictures, bring a smile to my face. 

I remember places, people, past Principals, teachers who've left our institution, ex-students, tour escorts from all the years gone by, experiences, situations, moments...

...and as I think of all these beautiful memories, I say a very big Thank You to God, for every single one of these experiences. They've added so much depth, colour, joy and beauty to my life. 

Each holiday has been a blessing. Every person who has been a co-traveller, has added so much to my life. I thank God for each of these experiences and I look forward to many more in the years to come.🙏✍️

TEARS ARE A LANGUAGE GOD UNDERSTANDS 😢

Right through my life, people have constantly appreciated me for my 'Smile'. I guess, it is one of God's special graces, that he bestowed on me. He has blessed me with the gift of a warm smile, that comes straight from the heart. I'm glad I can smile so effortlessly and genuinely, most of the time.😊

Of course, there have been countless occasions in life, when I have also shed innumerable tears. Apart from the moments of personal tragedy and the loss of dear loved ones, there have also been many other reasons, that have caused the dam of emotions, to just burst in a flood of tears.Little things that people say, hurtful remarks, unpleasant experiences, being accused falsely, misunderstandings - there have been so many moments, when things like these, have stung so hard, that they have caused the smiles to turn to tears.😢

I came across this video in one such moment. It was so 'Comforting', to hear the words of this song. 'Tears are a language God understands'. How beautiful to realize, that no matter how troubled we are, no matter how burdened we feel, and no matter how many tears we shed; God is always there to catch those falling tears in the palm of His hands.✨️❤️

I thank God for always being there for me, in every difficult moment of life. While I thank Him for the smiles, I especially thank Him for the tears, because I truly believe that those are the moments, when He is closest to me.🙏✍️

THANK YOU FOR THE SMILES 😊

It's not so difficult to share a 'Smile', even when you want to cry,
It's not impossible to hide your tears, even when you're asking 'Why?'.
Our lives are full of ups and downs, of countless highs and lows,
With each passing experience, our ability to cope, just grows.

I've spent many years being all alone, and cried many silent tears,😢
I've grappled with sorrow and immense pain, also innumerable fears.
But through it all, each time I stop, to ponder and think for a while,
I realize that it hasn't been so tough at all, to constantly wear a Smile.😊

I guess I've been blessed with some special grace, a Gift just given to a few,
The ability to 'Smile' despite my tears, and to give God the glory that's due.
I'm glad He bestowed and endowed me, with this wonderfully precious Gift,
Without which, I'm sure in an ocean of sadness, I'd surely have been cast adrift.
 
It is only His gentle Hand, that has guided me along,
It is only His tender Love, that has filled my world with Song.
Even in times of loneliness, I just know He is Always There,
My saddest moments in life, with only Him I constantly share.🙏

So I lost my sweet handsome Brother, when I was still a little child,
But I gained a 'Special Angel', in the vast heavens, so meek and mild.✨️
I miss him at life's every step, of that there is absolutely no doubt,
But I know he's always watching, from above where the birds head South.❤️

Strange as it may seem to some, it is the tears that have taught me to Smile,
Unreal, though it may certainly be, 'Genuine Happiness' is the contact to dial.
Every time life throws a bouncer at you, that you simply cannot duck,
Just 'Smile' at it with all your heart, and fresh Courage, right up you'll pluck. 😊✍️

200 YEARS - THE JOYFUL CREATIVE EDUCATOR - A ROLE-MODEL ✨️😊

200 long years ago

Was born a little boy,

Who would one day grow up

And fill the world with joy.

200 long years ago

Was born a loving smile,

That reached the hearts of wayward boys

And they forgot their troubles for a while.

200 long years ago

Was born a fabulous teacher;

He taught with loving kindness

And was not merely a preacher.

200 years and his dream lives on,

The vision he had, has now grown.

As we reach this wonderful milestone,

It’s a pleasure, to make him known.✨️❤️

It's the year 2015, and we're celebrating the Bi-centenary of the Birth of Saint John Bosco. I always think of Don Bosco as the ‘Happy and Creative Priest’, who constantly shared his joy with the young and taught them things, in very unique and innovative ways. 

The boys were attracted to him because 'he loved what they loved'. His Oratory was always filled with music, sports, activity, entertainment and excitement, along with learning. He truly loved the boys with all his heart; and he constantly expressed his love for them, in word and action.

As a teacher in a Salesian school, I hope I can aim to be, a little more like Don Bosco each day. I hope I can always be a 'Happy and Creative Teacher' like he was; and I pray, that I will always be able to let the boys know, that they are Loved, just like he did. 

St.Don Bosco, be my Guide on my journey, as I try to follow in your footsteps.🙏✍️