THE SALESIAN INFLUENCE IN MY LIFE 😊

I studied in an 'all girls school' as a child; but I remember that many of my friends, in my Sunday School classes, used to be 'Bosco Boys'. Interacting with them back then, as a youngster, I probably didn't know, that I would one day grow up to be a Teacher, in the very school, that so many of my friends used to study in. I think, I was always attracted to Don Bosco School, because of my interaction with them.😊

Besides that interaction, I also remember a few of my friends going for Summer Clubs to Don Bosco, during the holidays; and I used to love hearing about, all the fun activities they had there, year after year. Of course, I didn't really imagine then, that one day, I would be seeing those activities happening right before my eyes, year after year.

I also remember interacting with, a couple of young Salesian brothers many years ago, who are Priests now. Their families lived in our Parish, and they were my Teachers, at the 'Vacation Bible Joy' classes held in our Church, while they were on their holidays from the Seminary. 

Over the years, these 'Brothers', grew from being my teachers to being my friends; and I think, that interaction was probably one of my strongest connections with the Salesians, before I actually joined a Don Bosco school.✨️

200 years after Don Bosco's birth, in the year that we celebrate the Bi-Centenary of his birth, and eleven years after I have been a part of the Salesian family, I have also begun to discover the true joy that Don Bosco brought, to the lives of so many young boys, who just needed someone to show them, that they were 'Loved'.💕

I have recently begun to experience the heartfelt joy, that working in a Salesian Boy's Home brings, through the eyes of a friend, who has the privilege of interacting with a very talented bunch of children, in one of our Boarding schools. 

Unfortunately, our school does not have a Boarding section, any longer. So, every time I hear about the work, done in other Boarding schools, I really feel like I have missed out, on a true original 'Don Bosco experience'.

However,I'm glad that the work that Don Bosco began, so many years ago, is still working 'miracles', in so many lives; and somehow indirectly, I am also a part of those 'wonderful miracles', that happen everyday.❤️

I have just embarked on, the twelfth year of my journey as a Teacher, in a Salesian School. I feel so blessed everyday, to have been Chosen to be a part of this wonderful Salesian family, in the form of an Educator, who tries to walk in the footsteps of Don Bosco and emulate him, as much as I can, and in as many ways as is possible. 

I thank God for my extended Salesian family, all over India, and the world over; and I pray that each child that is touched in the 'Don Bosco Way', may grow up to make this world, a bright and beautiful place, in their own little ways, wherever they are. 

What an Impact you have made on so many lives dear St. John Bosco! I am blessed to be one of those special ones as well, whose lives have been touched by You.🙏✍️

LIFE IS A JOURNEY AND I'M ENJOYING EVERY MOMENT.

    

"So where are you going for the holidays this year?" That has been the question, that I've been asked innumerable times, over the past few weeks.🤔 

The month of May is generally associated with summer holidays, family trips, outings with friends, picnics, etc. I remember spending long holidays in Goa as a child, year after year, during this time.

Some of my 'fondest memories', are of the times I've spent in Goa, with my grandparents and extended family. I remember so many little things, from back then. Playing around in my grandfather's huge house, enjoying the sweet fruits-fresh from the trees, collecting the dried leaves, sitting by the river and watching the barges pass by, going across the river in the ferry boat, dipping my feet in the pond and walking through the fields...

There are so many countless things that I can remember. They are the moments that made holidays during my childhood days memorable. Those long holidays in Goa are among my most cherished childhood memories.✨️❤️

Once my grandparents passed away though, my trips to Goa, were not as frequent as they were before. However, my work began to present me with wonderful opportunities, to travel and discover different places. 

It has always been my wish, to visit as many parts of India as I can, to discover the beauty and variety that exists, in our wonderful nation. 

Over the past decade, I have been extremely fortunate, to fulfill this desire. I have been blessed with so many opportunities, to travel with my boys at school, and to discover India with them. Each and every one of those trips has been a 'learning experience'. 

As I look through the photographs, from the many trips I've been on, the wonderful memories are refreshed. I can remember so many moments, jokes, funny situations, memorable incidents, the beauty of the places themselves, the journey by train, the long bus rides, games, formation of teams, camp-fires and so much more. 

I miss all my ex-students, who used to accompany us on those trips regularly. Although they've passed out of school and moved on in life, the memories of the good times, spent on school trips with them, continue to live on in my heart. I guess those memories will stay with me forever.😊

    

Unfortunately, I do not have any holiday planned for these vacations; and somehow, there seems to be a vacuum. It seems like something is missing. Even though, most of my school trips do not happen during these holidays, it still feels like something is missing.😔

And so, I've been looking through old albums of previous holidays, and re-living the moments over the past week. Every single photograph, has a memory attached to it. So many pictures, bring a smile to my face. 

I remember places, people, past Principals, teachers who've left our institution, ex-students, tour escorts from all the years gone by, experiences, situations, moments...

...and as I think of all these beautiful memories, I say a very big Thank You to God, for every single one of these experiences. They've added so much depth, colour, joy and beauty to my life. 

Each holiday has been a blessing. Every person who has been a co-traveller, has added so much to my life. I thank God for each of these experiences and I look forward to many more in the years to come.🙏✍️

TEARS ARE A LANGUAGE GOD UNDERSTANDS 😢

Right through my life, people have constantly appreciated me for my 'Smile'. I guess, it is one of God's special graces, that he bestowed on me. He has blessed me with the gift of a warm smile, that comes straight from the heart. I'm glad I can smile so effortlessly and genuinely, most of the time.😊

Of course, there have been countless occasions in life, when I have also shed innumerable tears. Apart from the moments of personal tragedy and the loss of dear loved ones, there have also been many other reasons, that have caused the dam of emotions, to just burst in a flood of tears.Little things that people say, hurtful remarks, unpleasant experiences, being accused falsely, misunderstandings - there have been so many moments, when things like these, have stung so hard, that they have caused the smiles to turn to tears.😢

I came across this video in one such moment. It was so 'Comforting', to hear the words of this song. 'Tears are a language God understands'. How beautiful to realize, that no matter how troubled we are, no matter how burdened we feel, and no matter how many tears we shed; God is always there to catch those falling tears in the palm of His hands.✨️❤️

I thank God for always being there for me, in every difficult moment of life. While I thank Him for the smiles, I especially thank Him for the tears, because I truly believe that those are the moments, when He is closest to me.🙏✍️

THANK YOU FOR THE SMILES 😊

It's not so difficult to share a 'Smile', even when you want to cry,
It's not impossible to hide your tears, even when you're asking 'Why?'.
Our lives are full of ups and downs, of countless highs and lows,
With each passing experience, our ability to cope, just grows.

I've spent many years being all alone, and cried many silent tears,😢
I've grappled with sorrow and immense pain, also innumerable fears.
But through it all, each time I stop, to ponder and think for a while,
I realize that it hasn't been so tough at all, to constantly wear a Smile.😊

I guess I've been blessed with some special grace, a Gift just given to a few,
The ability to 'Smile' despite my tears, and to give God the glory that's due.
I'm glad He bestowed and endowed me, with this wonderfully precious Gift,
Without which, I'm sure in an ocean of sadness, I'd surely have been cast adrift.
 
It is only His gentle Hand, that has guided me along,
It is only His tender Love, that has filled my world with Song.
Even in times of loneliness, I just know He is Always There,
My saddest moments in life, with only Him I constantly share.🙏

So I lost my sweet handsome Brother, when I was still a little child,
But I gained a 'Special Angel', in the vast heavens, so meek and mild.✨️
I miss him at life's every step, of that there is absolutely no doubt,
But I know he's always watching, from above where the birds head South.❤️

Strange as it may seem to some, it is the tears that have taught me to Smile,
Unreal, though it may certainly be, 'Genuine Happiness' is the contact to dial.
Every time life throws a bouncer at you, that you simply cannot duck,
Just 'Smile' at it with all your heart, and fresh Courage, right up you'll pluck. 😊✍️

200 YEARS - THE JOYFUL CREATIVE EDUCATOR - A ROLE-MODEL ✨️😊

200 long years ago

Was born a little boy,

Who would one day grow up

And fill the world with joy.

200 long years ago

Was born a loving smile,

That reached the hearts of wayward boys

And they forgot their troubles for a while.

200 long years ago

Was born a fabulous teacher;

He taught with loving kindness

And was not merely a preacher.

200 years and his dream lives on,

The vision he had, has now grown.

As we reach this wonderful milestone,

It’s a pleasure, to make him known.✨️❤️

It's the year 2015, and we're celebrating the Bi-centenary of the Birth of Saint John Bosco. I always think of Don Bosco as the ‘Happy and Creative Priest’, who constantly shared his joy with the young and taught them things, in very unique and innovative ways. 

The boys were attracted to him because 'he loved what they loved'. His Oratory was always filled with music, sports, activity, entertainment and excitement, along with learning. He truly loved the boys with all his heart; and he constantly expressed his love for them, in word and action.

As a teacher in a Salesian school, I hope I can aim to be, a little more like Don Bosco each day. I hope I can always be a 'Happy and Creative Teacher' like he was; and I pray, that I will always be able to let the boys know, that they are Loved, just like he did. 

St.Don Bosco, be my Guide on my journey, as I try to follow in your footsteps.🙏✍️

JUST A REMINDER - 'TODAY' STILL EXISTS!!! ✍️

   

An interesting quote I came across stated, "It's good to have a 'destination or a goal' to journey towards; but it's 'the journey' that really matters."

If we take a few moments to ponder on this saying, we realize how true it really is. In today's world, most of us are so focussed, on the 'goals' we want to achieve in life, that we forget to 'enjoy the ride towards that goal'. In our zeal to reach a target, we're constantly speeding through the moments in our life; and in the process, we don't take the time to stop and smell the roses along the way. We overlook the little blessings all around us. 

While we're busy feeling a sense of regret, about all the things we could have done yesterday; and as we're constantly pre-occupied, with the fear of what could go wrong tomorrow, most of us completely forget about 'TODAY'.🤷🏻‍♀️

Mumbai is often referred to, as 'the city that never sleeps'. The streets outside many railway stations, are alive and busy with activity, well past midnight, almost everyday. 

Most of us, have lived in this city, from the day we were born. As a result, we've become a lot like the city. We're constantly on the move, and always thinking about what we can do next. 

In the process of living life in the fast lane, we are slowly losing touch with the little things in life, like going onto our terrace and watching a glorious sunset, or simply looking up at the sky on a star-lit night, and counting the stars, taking a walk bare-feet, on the soft grass in a garden, or just watching the birds fly past in the sky, and wondering where they're really going.🤔

A little child gets excited at the smallest things. He would probably jump up and down with joy, when he sees an aeroplane; and his eyes literally pop out, at the sight of an ice-cream shop. 

Little children can be our greatest teachers, when it comes to learning, how to really enjoy every moment and to savour every experience. They have no regret about the past, and have no fears about the future. They just live in the 'Now'.😊🌈

As we grow up, we gradually outgrow this sense of 'Wonderment'. Our focus shifts to supposedly more important things, like success, career, achieving something, etc. No doubt, all these things are necessary and important in life, as well. However, I just think that we must definitely not forget the 'little things in life', while we're busy achieving the 'big goals'.

We live in a materialistic world, where gadgets and gizmos rule our lives. The virtual world, often makes us forget the people in the same room. 

Let's press the 'pause' button in our lives. 

Let's learn to appreciate every moment. 

Let's thank God for giving us 'TODAY', which can be much more exciting, than every tomorrow, if we only take the time to enjoy every moment in every day, to the full.✨️✍️

IT IS NO SECRET, WHAT GOD CAN DO ✨️🎶

Lights!  Sound!  Music!  🎶

It's always wonderful, to listen to a  band of musicians performing 'Live', isn't it? Live music has a completely different, almost magical effect on the listener, simply because the sounds you hear, are being played or sung 'Live' on stage, and therefore seem completely real.

Ever since I was a 10 year old child, I've always been part of a group that sings  in church, Sunday after Sunday. I've been singing in Church choirs, for as long as I can remember. My tryst with music, began with songs and hymns, sung in praise of God, as far back as when I was in Class 3 or 4. 

While I've always listened to and enjoyed various secular forms of music, I have always been more closely associated with Liturgical Music, and have enjoyed singing in choral harmony, for Church services, Christmas Carol fests, etc.

As I stepped into college, an associated genre of music also caught my attention. I began to be fascinated by the melodies of Don Moen and others like him. 'Christian Gospel Music' began to form part of the genres of music, that I thoroughly enjoyed listening to. 

The soulful renditions, of lyrics that touched the heart, filled me with joy, every time I heard or sang one of those songs. Time passed by; and I continued to enjoy all forms of music, along with Gospel music.

A few years ago, I discovered that a good old friend of mine, Macklin Lacerda, had put together a Gospel Band called 'OPEN SECRET', right here in the city of Mumbai. Macklin is the lead singer of the group and having known him for many years now, I always had a strong desire to listen to him and his band perform.

However, for a very long time, it just didn't happen. The band had been around for about 5 years; but somehow, I hadn't really got an opportunity to listen to them.

Finally, one day last year, when OPEN SECRET made a memorable appearance at Blue Frog, Lower Parel, I finally got my chance to hear them perform, as I made it there, with a few of my friends from my choir. 

How amazing it was, to hear 'Gospel Music' being played, at a venue that you don't generally associate with Gospel Music at all! To see youngsters, actually enjoying the music was a real treat. What an achievement that was! 

In November'2013, God fulfilled a desire I had in my heart for a very long time. OPEN SECRET played in my Parish as well. A concert to mark the closing of the 'Year of Faith'.🙏

It was such an awesome feeling to hear them play, in my own backyard, so to say. It was exciting and thrilling, to see my own parishioners, revel in the rhythm and sway to the beats, which extolled the wonders that God has done. It was wonderful to hear them, make a joyful noise unto the Lord through Music.🎶

A few months have gone by since then. Just about a week ago, I had another opportunity, to see God at work through OPEN SECRET. I went for one of the fourteen 'The Journey Home' Lenten Concerts, at St. Peter's Church, Bandra. 

A concert conceptualised and based on the 14 Stations of the Cross; it was a wonderful experience journeying with the Lord, through the various stages of  His journey - an agonizing path, that His Heavenly Father had chosen for Him, and which he willingly accepted. 

As each song was played, we made our own inward journey as well, together with our Lord and Master, Jesus. We pondered on and examined, our own lives. We placed all our burdens at the Lord's feet. We tried to see where we needed to make a change in life. 

Most of all, we were given an assurance, that 'Every little thing's gonna be alright', simply because God was accompanying us, on every step of our journey. What an absolutely perfect message to take home from the concert!😊

OPEN SECRET - A small group of young people, who are trying to spread God's message of Love, through the medium of music.❤️

What is fascinating is that these very talented musicians, expect no remuneration whatsoever, in return for their tireless hard work, and the long hours put in, to plan, prepare and practice for the shows, which is a rarity in today's materialistic world. Their complete dedication, is exceedingly praiseworthy; and I'm certain that 'their reward will most definitely be great in heaven'.✨️

It is no secret what God can do; and in this case, God is using OPEN SECRET, to further His Mission of Love in the world. Every life that is touched at their concerts is a living testimony to the fact, that God works in wonderful and miraculous ways. May God Bless the Band and their ever-growing band of Secret Service volunteers, always.😊

OPEN SECRET 🎶

Macklin Lacerda (Lead Vocals / Guitars)
Aggi Agnelo Fernandes (Keyboards)

Calvin Vaz / Govind Gawli (Bass)
Jeremiah D'Silva (Guitars)
Roland Fernandes (Guitars / Bass)

Royston Mathias (Drums)

Rhea Serrao (Vocals)

BE STRONG AND TAKE COURAGE ✨️❤️

 

Death is a milestone along life's path that every single one of us comes across, sooner or later. 

For those who go ahead, I'm sure life is beautiful in heaven. 

For those of us who are left behind, to face life

without the one we love so dearly, life can be hard and challenging.😔

I heard this song at a funeral, some time ago; and ever since then, every time I am sad or I feel low, at the loss of a loved one, this song
fills me with grace and strength.

One of the most beautiful songs, I have
heard. It made a strong impact on me, the first time I heard it; and it continues to have the same effect on me, every single time I hear it.
Just listening to the song, fills me with strength and courage, that only comes from knowing that God is always there for us, no matter what.

Thank you Don Moen for sharing this beautiful song with the world.✨️❤️

(A beautiful Choral version, sung together by many different choirs.)

SWINGIN' IN THE RAIN 🎶☔️

The monsoon this year has brought forth showers of blessings aplenty. It's still the middle of August, and we've already had an abundant supply of water, pouring down from the skies.

The rains are perceived differently, by different people, and in a variety of situations. At the beginning of June, when the summer heat, has literally caught hold of us by the collar and we just can't take it anymore; the welcome drops of deliverance, that rain down from the heavens, are given  a warm reception.What a wonderful feeling, to get completely soaked to the bone in the rain! 

A few days later, when the roads get mucky and a few vehicles, splash the muddy water onto our freshly ironed clothes, on our way out; we immediately begin to curse the rains, and wonder when it will stop. 

When one is about to leave home for work, and the rain decides to play spoilt-sport just then; every drop is looked at, with a frown. However, when we're on a day off from work, sitting in the comfort of our homes; a heavy downpour, brings absolute joy to the heart. Put it together with a hot bowl of soup, steaming hot Maggi noddles or just some lovely bhajjiyas; and the rains, are suddenly a wonderful sight to behold.😄☔️

We human beings are very fickle, when it comes to our perception, of the world around us. Our likes and dislikes keep changing, as suddenly as the very weather, that we constantly grumble and complain about. 

Of course, this post isn't really about the fickleness of the human mind. I actually began writing this piece, because I wanted to write about an amazing experience, that I had yesterday. 

After a whole year, of wanting to go for a show, by a group called 'THE SALVATION SINGERS', I finally made it a point, to go for their show at St. Andrew's Auditorium in Bandra, called 'SWINGIN IN THE RAIN'. I think every single person who was seated in that Auditorium, would have gone home, with a smile on their lips and a song in their hearts.😊🎶

I've heard the 'Salvation Singers', on a number of occasions at the NCPA, when they've performed at the Stop Gaps Christmas concerts, in years gone by. Of course, ever since they've started putting up shows independently, I have been waiting for an opportunity to hear them perform an entire concert; and yesterday, I got my chance. I have to say I definitely wasn't disappointed.✨️❤️ 

Every aspect of the show was great. The simple yet fantastic stage set-up, the backdrop and props, coupled with great stage lights, set the mood for a wonderful evening. The wonderful and very thematic costumes, that included the footwear, matched the colours and hues of the songs, just perfectly. 

The two comperes were absolutely fantastic. Being someone who loves writing, I was completely taken up, by the wonderful script that was put together; and both the hosts, kept the entire audience entertained, right through the show. The fact that they were younger than most people on stage, speaks volumes for their talent. As a teacher, nothing makes me happier, than seeing young children and youth, developing their talents on stage.👏👏👏

This post would be incomplete, till I actually wrote about the music. The props, the lights, the costumes, the hosts were all worthy side-kicks, and they added a lot to the presentation; but the 'Songs and the Music', were definitely the 'Stars of the Show'.🌟

The choice of songs that were picked, ranged from classics like 'Singin in the Rain', 'My Way' and 'Tears in heaven', to  a number of songs that I've heard for the first time, like 'Rain, Rain, Beautiful rain', and many others, which were wonderful to listen to as well. 

The musicians were awesome too. It was fascinating, to see the saxophone and the tabla being played, by young women. The musicians didn't overpower the singing, right through the show; and that's what made the singing, really stand out. 

The instrumental pieces, were wonderful to listen to as well. The 'fusion' using Indian instruments and the Western instrumental pieces, were really lovely. I was also introduced to an instrument called the 'Ukulele' and another tiny instrument, that was used in a Spanish instrumental piece, that I haven't seen or heard before.🎶

Shows like these, give us opportunities to listen to some fabulous music, bump into old friends in the audience, who share the same passion for music as we do, and provide us with the luxury, of spending a relaxing evening. An evening, where we get a chance to enjoy the company of so many other Sopranos, Altos, Tenors and Basses, together with the Accompanists, who 'collectively', like nothing better than sharing their love of music, with the world.

Like some of the songs performed rightly say, Music, 'You fill up our senses', You make us feel like, 'We're walking on Sunshine' and when we listen to Music, we just feel like we're 'Home', and our heart goes 'Sh-Boom' with joy and exhilaration. 'What a wonderful world' this world of Music is.😄 

I didn't know every single person on stage, nor did I know every person seated in that auditorium; and yet, when the entire auditorium sang the popular favourites like 'Country Roads' and 'You fill up my senses' in one voice, there was a 'deep connection', with every person in that auditorium. 

I thank the conductor, Dylan D'Souza and 'The Salvation Singers', together with the entire team, that put this show together; for giving us a wonderful evening, that helped us to just sing all our blues away.😊❤️

TIME TO RE-CHARGE OUR CONNECTIVITY QUOTIENT ✍️

“Hello!…Hello!...Could you just repeat what you said...Just hold on okay…There’s too much noise here. I can’t hear anything you’re saying.”  

I’m sure most of us have had a conversation like this, over the telephone, at some time or the other, haven't we?

Living in Mumbai, the frequent offenders that assist this reduced audibility, would be the loud decibels, emanating from street bands and revelry, during the celebration of a festival, a fast out-station train passing by, a crowded noisy street during a traffic jam, uncontrollable honking at a traffic signal (which is the strangest and silliest thing, since no one is going anywhere, till that signal changes colour)🤦‍♀️, digging of bore-wells and machines at construction sites, the blaring television in our living rooms, etc.

As if these deafening sounds weren’t sufficient, to hamper our sense of hearing, we have gadgets aplenty, to draw our attention away, from the people around us. Laptops, Cell phones, Tablets - complete with the latest games and apps - and lo and behold, we’re 'Visible and Invisible' at the same time. 

Physically, we are 'Visible' to those around us. They see us; but if they try to get in a word, it just won’t get through to us, because with our faces and minds buried in Facebook, Twitter and Whats App, the virtual conversations take complete control of us, and even if someone yells straight into our ears, we wouldn’t really hear it. 

Technology thus has the power, to lure us into a world of chats and instant messaging, that takes us far beyond the world, that we are physically living in. It gently coaxes us, to spend every waking moment in cyberspace, with people we refer to as our ‘Friends'.

...But ironically, after it has systematically ensnared us to such an extent, that we stop talking to the people in the same room as us – mainly our family; we have chosen to name this activity ‘COMMUNICATION’. We even have the audacity to say that our means of communication, have evolved and developed. 

However, when I look at people around me, with all their fancy gadgets through which they ‘supposedly communicate’, I am tempted to ask, “ARE WE REALLY COMMUNICATING??? ”🤔

A little child loves it, when he can pick up a cricket bat, and play a game with his dad, even if the bat seldom makes contact with the ball. 

A toddler, loves to hear his mother read him a bed-time story, even if he has heard the story a million times before. 

Little children enjoy coming home from school, and narrating all the events of the day to their parents, very enthusiastically. 

They are always game for a 'family outing' over the weekend, or are happy just playing a game of scrabble, monopoly or simply snakes and ladders, because it means they get a chance to spend a few precious moments with their mum and dad.💕

Sadly, these treasured moments of togetherness in the family, are overtaken by gadgets and gizmos these days. The nuclear family system, often deprives children of the presence of grandparents, who would have otherwise made up, for the absence of the child’s working parents. 

Hectic work- schedules, jobs that entail working in shifts, deadlines at the work-place, or just the presence of that very intrusive cell phone, that keeps ringing incessantly, at all the wrong moments, are collectively robbing our kids of what is rightfully theirs – FAMILY TIME.😔

As an Educator, who works with children everyday, I observe kids on a daily basis; and based on my observations, I think it is imperative for me, to remind all the parents I know, that they need to make their children their top priority, and put genuine ‘Family time’, back on their daily schedule. 

While the world comes closer together, through the various means of communication, we also need to RE-CHARGE OUR CONNECTIVITY QUOTIENT in our families. I earnestly urge all parents to just ‘LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD’ more often than you pick up a cell phone or chat online.❤️

Likewise, I would also like to remind all the young people I know, especially those who've been my students in the past; that there is no one who loves you, more than your parents. As you grow up into teenagers, you often develop this mistaken notion, that your parents have landed from another planet; and therefore, can never seem to understand you. 

You need to understand though, that in reality, it is quite the contrary. Your parents may not always seem to understand you, because of the so-called ‘generation-gap’; but in reality, you just need to make an extra effort, and try and start opening up a little more, by sharing your thoughts, fears, happiness, etc. with your parents. 

Instead of whiling away the hours on networking sites, ‘START TALKING TO YOUR PARENTS’, in the same way that you would talk to a friend; and before you know it, all the lines of communication in your family will be open.😄✍️

MUSIC BRINGS JOY TO MY HEART 😊🎶

Lest the few people, who used to follow this blog at some point of time, think that I've gone into hibernation forever; I thought I'd put down a few lines on my blog today. 

This past month has been a month full of Music. I've been for some fabulous musical performances; and so I thought, there could be nothing better, than writing about those wonderful musical moments, to pick up from where I left off, so many months ago.🎶

I've kind of had an overdose of Music this month; but this is one, that has absolutely no negative side-effects. In fact, the only effect was, that my heart was filled with joy.😊

Unfortunately, for those of us who live in the Northern suburbs of Mumbai, most of these shows are held in South Mumbai, at the NCPA, in Nariman Point; and unless you have company, getting home after a show, can be a bit of a problem, since it gets a little too late to travel alone. Thankfully this month, I've had lots of friends who agreed to come along, which resulted in this being, a good 30 days for my ears.💕

I had an opportunity to be there for 2 shows by the 'Stop-Gaps', a choir that I've enjoyed listening to, over the years. Not only do they sing and perform well; but their shows are always very enjoyable, thanks to the great sets, costumes, choreographed movements, live music accompaniment and great vocal harmony that Alfred D'Souza, their counductor, puts together.

I've heard countless tales of him being quite a bit harsh, during rehearsals; but I guess if the outcome is as good, as what they eventually put up on stage, we could ask for nothing better.👍

The first show was very creatively titled 'Stop-Gaps goes to the Dogs - and other furry creatures', as it was a charity event for the Welfare of Stray Dogs. So, the selection of songs had many of my personal favourites, sung by the Stop-Gaps and some very well-known soloists, from all over the city. A lot of songs related to animals and many from the Animated movies that everyone loves, made it a thoroughly enjoyable evening. 

Their Second show, called 'The Swinging 60's' was even better, as the programme included the Best Songs from the 60's - an era that all of us love, in terms of the music that was created back then; and to give it that twist, that the Stop-Gaps are now known for, they also included a small selection of songs from Bollywood, from that period of time; which was also great to listen to, in harmony.

I have often been for the Stop-Gaps Christmas shows, where they invite many other choirs from all over Mumbai to perform at their 'Festival of Festive Music'. At those shows, one only gets a chance to hear a few songs performed by the Stop-Gaps. 

These two shows gave me an opportunity to hear much more of the Stop-Gaps; and I was so glad I could be there, to enjoy their wonderful vocal harmony. The kids in their Junior Ensemble are also pretty amazing; and that group of 'Little Wonders', ensures that the future of the Stop-Gaps, is in safe hands.👏👏👏

There were also these two frequently advertised shows, that had been running in Mumbai for many months; but somehow, even thought I kept seeing the advertisements in the newspapers repeatedly, I just couldn't make the time, or find someone to go along with me for them. 

Finally this month, I was so glad when my friends from my choir, agreed to come along for the two shows called 'Broadway and Beyond' and everyone's all-time favourite, 'The Sound of Music'.😄

Both these shows were produced by the renowned Raell Padamsee's 'Academy for Creative Expression'(ACE Production), and so automatically, the musical quality and standard of the show was something to look forward to.

After having gone for both shows, I can safely say that they definitely did not disappoint. In fact, it made me and my friends immediately wonder, about when we could go for shows like those again.🎶 

The Broadway show had a great selection of songs from Broadway, performed by some fantastic, well-established performers from Mumbai. One performer that stood out for me, among all the brilliant performances at the Broadway show, was Tara Sutaria, a 16 year old musical prodigy, who is already taking the city by storm, at such a young age.✨️ 

To be able to watch 'The Sound of Music' being performed on Stage, just a couple of days ago, was also a fantastic experience; and especially since Delna Mody, who played the part of Maria, did full justice to her role. Marianne D'Cruz Aiman who played the role of the Mother Superior, was completely out of this world too; and all the other performers, also added to the show and made it an absolute hit.🌟

Earlier this month, I also had a chance to listen to a group of 4 singers from Kolkata, who go by the name 'Dhwani'. I have followed this group for the past 4 years. They put up a show for Teachers every year around 'Teachers Day', at the St. Andrew's Auditorium in Bandra, called 'To Teachers with Love' - which is their way of paying tribute to teachers in many Indian cities.❤️ 

What is unique about 'Dhwani' is that these four singers, who have primarily been trained in Indian Classical Music, sing in many different languages. This multi-lingual group, has evolved and grown over the last four years, that I have watched them perform. 

I marvel at the research that goes into their song-selection, and love the way they look for the original songs, of so many Bollywood favourites, and then sing those songs in the original languages, along with the Hindi counterpart. 

It's a very 'unique concept', which I haven't seen anyone in Mumbai do before. It makes the show 'enjoyable' as well as 'informative', as it helps to increase one's musical knowledge. 

What is also special about this group, is the way in which they can just switch into the 'accents' of the songs that they are performing, at the drop of a hat. You wouldn't even know, that the song is being sung by an Indian Classical singer. It's wonderful to hear them use their very strong base in Indian Classical music; and then branch out from there, into World music.👏👏👏

So, as is very obvious from my extra-long post, I've thoroughly enjoyed this month. I've been swamped with work right through this month; but these musical interventions, have made these last 4 weeks, so much fun.🎶

One might say, that it was a little too much for one month. It sure has been hectic to come back late from the shows, and then go to work the next morning, and look fresh and chirpy in front of my boys in school, even though I've been exhausted.😊 

Of course, considering how much fun I've had in this one month, I'm not complaining one bit. I'm just so glad I had the opportunity to go for all these shows. I'm happy my friends from my choir agreed to come along as well; and together, we've had some wonderful evenings. I'm glad I have friends who share my love for music. I look forward to many such musical moments with all of them.💕

I cannot conclude this post, without a word of thanks to God for this past month, which I have loved so much. I'd also like to Thank the Lord above, for all the performers who were a part of these multiple shows, that I was able to enjoy. It is He who has blest them with these wonderful talents, and it is He who gives them the strength to persevere through countless rehearsals and long hours of practice, which are an absolute must, for shows that turn out to be so enjoyable eventually. 

I pray that God may bless each of these performers and their families, and all those people who work behind the scenes, to turn these shows into a reality. It's thanks to the whole lot of them, that my friends and I, had such a great time at all these shows. I may not be able to thank each of them personally, for filling my heart with joy; but I can definitely whisper a prayer for them, and ask the Lord to bless them, in all that they do. Looking forward to many more musical moments in future in the company of my friends.✨️❤️

  

TO ALL MY WOMEN FRIENDS ✨️❤️

I was sitting around aimlessly a few days ago; and a random thought just happened to cross my mind. 

I suddenly realised that most of the girls I used to know, during my school and college days; were now not a part of my immediate friend circle anymore, because most of them had moved away from their parent's homes, when they got married.😔

On the other hand, all the guys I've known over the years, are still very much a part of the group of people, that I meet and see around regularly. Their wives have now become good friends, and they've very easily and comfortably replaced all the girls, who used to be my friends in school.😊

Now while this isn't a very amazing discovery that would make me shout, 'Eureka', it definitely made me ponder on something, that is a reality in our country and probably in most parts of the world. 

A woman has to literally uproot herself, from the place she has grown up in; and move away from the people and friends, who have been her closest companions, in the first phase of her life, if and when she chooses to get married. 

Along with all the other changes, that marriage eventually brings to her life; she has to also adapt to a new set of friends. She has to foster new friendships, with the people in her husband's world. She has to blend into a world, that has been existing for a long time, before she popped in; and get used to a completely new set of people, with all their quirks and idiosyncrasies. 

In most cases, she does this completely effortlessly; and within no time, the new friendships that she develops, are as strong as the ones she had before, in the place where she grew up.🤷🏻‍♀️

In a way, these changes in a woman's life are what make life interesting; because she gets an opportunity to befriend new people, and have two sets of friends that she can fall back on, in times of need. 

However, I couldn't stop myself from thinking that these changes in her life, are actually thanks to the 'norms laid down by culture and society'. Now, while there isn't a rule that she 'has' to follow all these norms, almost all women do; which accounts for the steady change of the women in my world.😔 

I know this is going to make me sound like a real feminist; but I can't help saying that these societal norms, are very unfair on women. Not just for the women, who have to move into their husband's world and accept his friends as her own, or make new friends of her own in his world; but also for women like me, who haven't made that choice as yet. 

Even for people like me, these 'norms' are just as hard to digest; and my ever-changing circle of female friends, bears witness to my loss. Of course, I do have a steady set of women friends at my work-place; but even that, is in danger of being snatched away from me, by the big bad wolf called marriage, whenever it does come knocking at my door.

There are solutions of course. I mean, it's not that every norm has to be followed; but this is just something that I've been thinking about, over the past few days. So I decided to put down my thoughts. 

I just wonder about how much 'my world' is going to constantly evolve and change over time. I wonder, whether I will also have to adapt to a new world, and a new set of people that I am not familiar with at all.🤔

At the same time, I am also glad to be blest with so many new pals, in the wives of my male friends. Of course, I really miss all the girls I used to call friends, who are now far away in different places, making their husband's world their own. No doubt the internet helps us to stay connected; but in some strange way, my world in incomplete without all of them in it.

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY to all my women friends, both old and new. Enjoy life wherever you are today.🤗❤️

BABY BOOM!!! 👶

Is it just me or has there suddenly been a steep rise in the number of babies around these days? 🤔

Over the past year or so, I've suddenly realised that almost everywhere I go, I'm interacting with little kiddies. I guess the reason, is because many of my friends and cousins, have now started families of their own; and that accounts for me coming across babies, wherever I go. Whether it's among my colleagues at work, my cousins, my choir and among friends in general; babies seem to be the 'in-thing' at every turn.👶

Of course, this 'Baby Boom' does come with it's perks. When there's a baby around, you cannot help but Smile. Babies have this uncanny knack of bringing people together and spreading joy, just by being themselves. 

Their level of eloquence, may be nothing more than a babble, or words likes ga-ga, goo-goo, etc; but somehow, they are able to draw a larger audience, than even the most well-spoken speakers, you've ever heard. 

Everything they do is like front page news, even if they just wave, or smile, or utter a sound that makes absolutely no sense. A baby is the centre of attraction the moment he or she enters a room. All eyes are suddenly directed towards the tiny tot, and all work gets suspended, for as long as he's holding sway there. 

A person may be tired or exhausted from a long day's work, or may have a million things on his or her mind; but somehow, the little kid manages to banish all those blues away, just by his very presence. 

He's not a counsellor who gives you a listening ear, while you share your problems with him. He or she doesn't even give any advice, to help you out; and yet, he seems to alter the mood in a room, within seconds.😄

I wonder what makes babies so eternally attractive to us. They seem to have some magnetic power in them, that just draws us towards them. They seem to possess the ability to bring joy to the world around them, without even knowing it. I guess they could be called the 'biggest super-heroes of all time', because the power that they possess, is limitless and has no bounds; and more importantly, they can change the world.

I'm just happy, that I've been coming across so many new 'little persons', over the last few months. My life has become so much more beautiful, because of their presence in my life. My interaction with them lasts only for a few brief moments, every other day or week; but in that short time they brighten up my world, and I'm grateful for the little encounters I have with them.

I pray that all these little angels may grow up, to make their mommies and daddies proud of them. I hope they can become whatever they hope to be in life.For the moment though, I'm just glad they're a part of my life.✨️❤️

MUSIC AND ME ✨️🎶

A painter paints pictures on canvas, but musicians paint their pictures on silence. 🎨🎶

- Leopold Stokowski. 

It is truly amazing how music can fill one's life with so much Joy. It's just a few musical notes strung together, harmoniously bursting forth from a whole range of musical instruments; and yet, for those few moments, it can literally transport you into a different world. 

Music can actually set the mood. It can lift your spirits, when you're down in the dumps; and it can evoke beautiful memories of wonderful moments, spent in the company of those you Love. For me personally, Music has always been one thing, that fills my heart with tremendous Joy.😊💕

I just spent a lovely evening yesterday, enjoying some beautiful Broadway melodies, performed live by the Bombay Chamber Orchestra. I've been for a number of their concerts over the years, thanks to a couple of old friends, who've been part of the BCO for years; and I've enjoyed every single concert, that I've been to. 

This time, was no exception. It was a wonderful experience just being there,especially since another friend, was making his debut, playing the drums for the BCO at this concert. While it must have been nerve racking for him, trying his best not to play a wrong beat anywhere, it was wonderful for us to watch him, become part of this wonderful group of classically trained musicians, which has been around for 49 long years.✨️

The group includes both young and old, from school children to people who are well into their 80's, all brought together with one single vision - the Passion for Good Music. 

Collectively, this bunch of musical enthusiasts, are the heart of Mumbai's Western Classical music circuit, because they strive to keep it alive; despite the fact that almost all of them work full-time jobs, in various other professions. Music being a little more than just a hobby for them, they manage to find the time for rehearsals, despite their hectic schedules, and the routine they have to follow, on a daily basis. I really marvel at their dedication and the focus, with which they do what they love best.

There are a number of people who learn and play music for their personal pleasure; but those who play and perform music for others, are sharing their joy with so many others, who may have had the desire to play music, but have never really been able to pursue their love for music, by actually learning to play a musical instrument.❤️

When I look at myself, I realize that all through my life, I've been connected to 'Music' in some way or the other. I've sung in Church Choirs, for as long as I can remember. I remember singing my first solo in Church, on my First Holy Communion Day, when I was just in Class 3, and barely 8 or 9 years old. From there, began my journey of singing in Choirs. 

I guess I could credit my first Music Teacher, who taught me to read notes from a Music sheet, and then turn those notes into a beautiful melody on a keyboard; with introducing me to Choir Music. She was the one, who initiated me into a love for Liturgical music. 

At different stages of my life, I've sung in a number of Church choirs, Choirs at School and in College; and with each group, I've learnt something new. I've also had an opportunity to meet and interact with a number of musicians, many of whom, play a lot more than just Church Music; and each interaction, has only added to my knowledge and Love for Music.✨️

Over the years, I've also realised that my Love for Music, has unconsciously been a very strong factor, in my choice of friends as well. A large number of my friends, right through my school and college years, and even today; are people who either sing or play some musical instrument or the other. I don't think I ever went looking for these friends though. I guess, it just happened, that the Music brought us together and made us Friends. 

This extensive list of friends, includes those who've sung for pleasure, those who sing because it's a passion, friends from college who've combined their singing talent with their amazing stage presence and been part of a number of acapella groups, friends who compose, create and direct music, and even friends whose music has been recorded and sold. While a few of these friends have gone on to win acclaim and recognition, even Internationally; most of them continue to make music or sing, simply because it brings them Joy.😊🎶

As a result of my interaction with Musicians of all kinds over the years, I've also found that the choice of genres of' music that I enjoy, spans a very wide range - from classical to non-classical, Western to Indian, soft instrumental to folk music, musicals to acapella, jazz to church music and occasionally Hindi pop music as well.

When people ask me, what kind of music I like or who my favourite singer is, I always find myself without a ready answer. I think the reason is simply because, I like so many different kinds of music, that it's difficult to actually pick and choose which one I like more than others. So, it's safer to say, I just love Good Music.🤷🏻‍♀️

The only regret I have though, is that I didn't really pursue the Musical Instrument, that I set out to learn to play, for too many years after I finished school. The desire still exists; but I guess the determination to sit down and practise, is something that needs to be worked on constantly. 

Thankfully, the fact that I still sing in a Choir, has kept me connected with reading music till today; and I sometimes console myself by saying, that as long as I can still read music, I will be able to get back to playing music, whenever I choose to.😊

I'm grateful that I can always hum a tune when I'm happy, and I'm happier still, that God has blest me with so many friends over the years, who share my Love for Music, and whose Passion for Music, has been even stronger than my Love for it.❤️

While many of my musically inclined friends are separated by time and space today, I hope and pray that they are continuing to do what they love best. Hopefully someday, we will sing together again. Maybe sometime in the future, I may be able to Sing to your tunes, or you may be able to sing Lyrics that I have written; but for the moment, may we all continue to fill the world with Music, wherever we may be.✨️🎶

P.S...In case some of my old college friends happen to look at this post, I really miss hearing you all sing and watching you perform. Just writing this post, brought back a lot of old memories, from days gone by.🤗

   

ROLE -MODELS FOR OUR GENERATION 🏏

Dreams do come true!!! For some like Sachin Tendulkar, it takes all of 22 years to become a reality; but eventually, the long and seemingly endless wait, bore fruit. For others, the wait might not seem like one at all, as in the case of Virat Kohli, who played his first ever World Cup and reaped rich dividends almost instantaneously. 

Over the last weekend, when the enthusiasm of almost every Indian rose to a fever pitch, as India won that elusive 'World Cup' after 28 long years, I joined in the revelry as well, in my own small way. I was overjoyed too. The excitement was thoroughly contagious; and it managed to rub off, even on the most confirmed cynic of the game of cricket.🏏

I've always loved the game though, and am proud to say that I've stood by the Men in Blue, even at times when they were down in the dumps and ridiculed by the world at large, for not performing well-enough. So, this win was a truly stupendous moment, and one that I will cherish forever in my memory. 

Although I was around way back in 1983, I was only about 4 years old then; and so I don't even have a faint recollection, of that momentous occasion. So, for me this World Cup win, is the first one that I will be able to remember, for a long time to come. It's a story I will be able to tell my grand-children some day, cause I was here when it happened.😊

There were a number of special moments in this World Cup, and a number of people who made this event something to remember, for a long, long time; but I'd like to write about two special people that I'm really, really happy for and proud of. When I think of this World Cup win some years down the road, the faces of these two individuals, is what will stay with me.

The first one of course, is Sachin Tendulkar. While it was his dream to hold that Cup one day; and his entire team worked so hard, in order to make that dream of his a reality, it was also a desire in my heart, to see Sachin conquer that one final summit, in the game of cricket, that had eluded him even after 6 World Cups.

Like scores of others, I too have always admired the 'Little Master' for his dedication and perseverance. He has a steely resolve and an undying spirit in him, that just refuses to give way. I admire the way he just gets better and better as the years go by, maturing like wine into the best you've ever tasted. It's been 22 years and he still seems to possess the energy and the determination to keep going for a few years more. 

Already into my 30's, I sometimes feel the strain of life catching up with me; but Sachin somehow manages to overcome every hurdle along his path. He truly is an 'Inspiration', to the world at large; and I'm proud to say, I was born in the same generation as him, and lived when he walked the face of the earth. Men like him are born just once in a lifetime; and I'm glad I've been around, to witness his various achievements.🌟

Without doubt, the second person I was really proud of, was our 'Captain Cool' - Mahendra Singh Dhoni or 'Mahi', as he is often lovingly referred to. His composure on the field, has been spoken of by many. His tactical decisions and his straightforward approach, have also been applauded by one and all. 

Over and above all of these qualities though, what stood out for me about MSD was his humility. His ability and willingness to take a back seat, is what had been most commendable. Right through the tournament, he led from the front; but when it was time to bask and revel in the glory, he didn't hog the limelight all by himself. Instead, one had to struggle to find Dhoni in the images in the newspaper, the day after the historic win. He just blended into the background so effortlessly; and so, what we saw was 'Team India', and not just the Captain who led the team.👏👏👏

I think that was the most outstanding mark of his 'Leadership'. I admire a Leader like him who can be Humble, even in the face of adulation of this proportion. To be able to stand his ground and not get carried away in the moment, is something that I am so proud of him for. I hope that MSD will continue to be as humble as he was in those winning moments always, because it is that one quality of his, that has made him rise up even higher in people's estimation.👍

The World Cup is now over; but those proud and joyous moments will live on. I may never meet Sachin or Dhoni in my life-time. My acquaintance with them, may just be restricted to the images I see of them on the T.V. screen, every time they step onto the field; but these two men, have left an indelible mark on my heart. 

More than their ability and mastery of the Sport itself, it is their 'human qualities' that have touched me and appealed to me. I pray that they may always be blest in all that they do.✨️💕

I CRY BECAUSE I CARE 😢

I didn't teach you to disobey,
Still you choose to ignore all I have to say.
I didn't show you how to cheat,
Still you persistently go astray.
I didn't put those words onto your tongue,
Still you utter profanity day after day.
I didn't display a lack of respect for you,
Still your manners are heading towards absolute decay.

I've always tried to teach by example,
Yet my actions couldn't fulfill their aim.
I've always endeavoured to practice what I preach,
Yet your behaviour generates nothing but shame.
I've always worked towards doing my best for you,
Yet the way you've turned out, makes me feel so lame.
I've always striven hard, to show you the right way to go,
Yet thru' your antics, you seldom uphold my name.

To me it seems like you just don't care,
My deep anguish is slowly turning to despair.
I've always loved you from the depths of my heart,
It now seems to have been, a waste of time from the start.

I ache with pain from my very core,
As years go by, I dread to imagine what's in store.
Times are a-changing at such a rapid pace,
Values slowly vanishing, soon to be gone without a trace.😢✍️